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Poll: Should Boy Scouts Lift Ban On Gay Members?

An Arlington Heights church this week called on the Boy Scouts of America to lift the organizations ban on gay members.

 

An Arlington Heights church called on the Boy Scouts of America to lift its ban against homosexual participants.

The United Church of Christ handed out fliers Sunday, Feb. 3 asking its congregation to write letters opposing the anti-gay policy, the Chicago Tribune reported.

"Our position is that LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) folks, whether they're minors or whether they're adults, have a role to play in our society and our culture," Rev. Rex Piercy told the Tribune. "This (Scouting) organization, which seeks the support of churches like ours, ... stands against the very kind of welcome that we extend to those folks."

The youth organization is considering lifting its ban against gay members and leaders, NBC News reported. The new policy being considered would lift the ban from the national organization's rules and would leave the decision to local sponsoring organizations.

However, whether a change in the group's rules becomes a reality remains to be seen.

The Boy Scouts of America reaffirmed the ban last year after a two-year review, the New York Times reported. Although the ban was discussed Jan. 28, the Boy Scouts have deffered a decision until their national annual meeting in May.

  • Should Boy Scouts Lift Ban On Gay Members?

    (Voting has been closed for this question)
    • Yes. Someone who is gay should not be banned from being a member or a leader.
        132 (66%)
    • No. Gay people should not be part of the organization.
        66 (33%)
    Total votes: 198
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Related Topics: Boy Scouts, Boy Scouts Gay Ban, and Sunday Poll

Greg in Huntley

7:19 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Many mainline Christian churches accept gay and lesbian persons as part of God's creation - including the American Baptists, Episcopal, Lutherans and the United Church of Christ. Apparently Christian does not automatically mean that one has to hate and exclude gay and lesbian people; and that the term 'gay' does NOT mean sexual activity but only attraction to the same sex. Maybe the BSA is coming to this conclusion too. Finally as a Christian organization perhaps the BSA is recognizing there is considerable differences in thought and understanding on this topic within various Christian denominations - Christianity is not monolithic on many topics.

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Dennis Wayne

4:33 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

It is a private orgination.If they want to allow gays,thats up to them and they should be forced to.Whether they allow gays or not,I don't care one way or another.

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Richard Wollard

10:20 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Accepting the person and accepting or condoning the behavior, are two separate ideas. The real issue has nothing to do with religion or being gay - the real issue is understanding who's God do you serve and how you define “do my duty.” Is the BSA a Christian organization?

Debra Gisby

7:22 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

They should, but if they did who would want to join such an organization? I did not allow my sons join when they were kids and we lived in Atlanta. YoU can change rules but not peoples minds, especially in the South.

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Dennis Wayne

5:04 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

I did not proof read my post,I meant to post the BSA should not be forced to accept gays,it should be up to the scouting org.

Jon Hall

7:37 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

A scout is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, and reverent. Sad to say, but scouting should disband rather than become a nasty battleground over this issue. It's a no win situation with very nasty overtones and with very low potential for any kind of workable solution which embraces the principles of scouting, and several aspects of the scouting oath and law. All I can foresee is nasty barrages of legal battles involving large sums of lawyers, fees, and intolerance. Scouting would do better to move under the banner of heaven, and leave it at that...a religious organization. Sad. Scouting was a major source of comraderie, education experience, and values for me growing up in the 1950s. I can't imagine being involved in scouting now given the strong emotional hysteria consuming today's environment.

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Jim

8:14 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

NO - refer to last line in the Scout Oath:

On my honor I will do my best
To do my duty to God and my country
and to obey the Scout Law;
To help other people at all times;
To keep myself physically strong,
mentally awake, and morally straight.

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Bob Stock

8:22 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Jim: It's unfortunate that you equate immorality with being gay.

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D'skidoc

8:25 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Says "morally straight" not sexually straight. Also don't forget to tell your six year old not to be gay when he grows up or all those badges towards eagle don't mean diddly. The original boy scout manual said you should take a cold shower and dry off with a stiff towel once weekly. Things do change. Wonder what the cold shower was for?

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Jim

1:21 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Immoral(adj)
not moral; inconsistent with rectitude, purity, or good morals; contrary to conscience or the divine law; wicked; unjust; dishonest; vicious; licentious; as, an immoral man; an immoral deed

We read in God’s Word the following statements about
homosexuality:
“You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an
abomination. … Do not defile yourselves by any of these
things”(Lev.18:22,24).
“If a man lies with a male as with a woman,both of them
have committed an abomination…”(Lev.20:13)

Through His Word,God teaches us very clearly that homosexuality
is a sin. A person who persists in homosexual
behavior stands under the condemnation of God’s Word.This
is true for anyone who persists in sin without repentance.
While this may be an unpopular message,it is the truth taught
to us by God in His Word.

Lutheran Church Missouri Synod

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Bob Stock

9:36 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Jim:
Do not preach to me about religion you are not qualified to do so. And I am unmoved by your sanctimonious sermon about what is or is not morality.

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Mr Tibbs

9:54 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Jim, i expect that you equally follow the other passages of Liviticus and the rest of the bible word for word, right? You probably dont need me to quote the ones that im sure you hold a double standard on. That said, a private organization has its own rights. If it chooses not to change with society, it will probably go the way of all white golf clubs or bars that will not allow any women.

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gary schlesinger

9:57 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

if your religion says being gay is morally wrong, you are entitled to that opinion. but you are not entitled to force that opinion on others such as the bsa.

if there is a god. if we are all created in the image of god. if being gay is not a choice but a genetic disposition, are not gay people created by god? why would god claim that part of what he or she created is abominable? how do we know that what is in a book written by people wandering in the desert for 40 years at least 6000 years ago is really the word of god?

your whole argument is a house of cards that has fallen years ago.

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Anne

10:33 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Jim - As a Bible thumping Willow Creek member myself, I am always so surprised how 2 verses on homosexuality takes over the whole Bible. It's funny Jesus never mentions anything about homosexuality. Not once! If you believe it to be sin, than for you it is sin, but so is sitting in the judgement seat, lying, stealing, coveting, cheating, etc etc. In the eyes of God, sin is sin. There is no greater sin over another. Christians are so focused on homosexuality that they cannot even see past their own noses about all the other 'sin' that so out weighs homosexuality (which I do not believe is a sin as they are born that way and God doesn't make mistakes)! PS- I'd like to meet 'one' morally straight person. According to the Bible, we are ALL sinners and need Jesus the Savior who died once for ALL sin. So, Jim, I am sure you are NOT morally straight, either!

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IMHO

11:26 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Here we go with Leviticus again.

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Jim

11:50 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Anne - Take a look at what Paul has to say in 1st Corinthians, also take a look at Matthew Chapter 5. Remember Jesus came to fullfill the law, not abolish it or change it.

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Mr Tibbs

1:54 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

So Jim. As a fellow Christian, I am very curious why you would not answer my question. Do you take every verse of the bible directly and adhere to it? Every one of them?

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Lee

6:32 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Jim, you're taking that page from the Lutheran Missouri Synod. The same ones who punished a minister for praying with other clergy because they were not Lutheran, at the interfaith service for the Sandy Hook children.
If these people are your guidance, you can be sure that they are wrong. Being gay is not a choice. You would be one who would say that God made them that way. So, who are you to exclude one of God's children?

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Elzabeth Miranti

11:41 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Jim,
I presume you follow all of Leviticus, including:
"Don't cut your hair nor shave. (Leviticus 19:27)"
and
"If a man cheats on his wife, or vise versa, both the man and the woman must die. (Leviticus 20:10)."
and
"People who have flat noses, or is blind or lame, cannot go to an altar of God (Leviticus 21:17-18)"
Find more of the often violated edicts of Leviticus at: http://biblebabble.curbjaw.com/laws.htm

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Donna M.

12:33 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Jim do you like bacon and football?

Leviticus 11:7-8

And the pig, because it parts the hoof and is cloven-footed but does not chew the cud, is unclean to you. You shall not eat any of their flesh, and you shall not touch their carcasses; they are unclean to you.

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Jim

6:28 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Donna - No, actually I am not a fan of football, and yes do like bacon. Your refering to ceremoninal laws, not moral laws, There are three different types of laws - moral, ceremonial, and political. Discussion here was around moral law, Have a great day.

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Sully

6:41 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Jim, who are you to interpret these laws? What makes your interpretation any more valid? If you do indeed take every word or every statement, then you are breaking several of God's laws, I'm sure. If you follow one, you must follow all. You can't pick and choose which laws suit you best and disregard the ones that are inconvenient. Sorry, Jim, that makes you a hypocrite.

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Sully

6:45 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Sorry, left out " literally". If you take words and statements literally...

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Jim

8:34 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Lee - you wrotet: The same ones who punished a minister for praying with other clergy because they were not Lutheran, at the interfaith service .....

Yes, the minister was called on the carpet for praying at the interfaith service, nothing new with the LCMS. Has nothing to do with the tragedy at Sandy Hook, or being gay.

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Jim

8:41 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Mr Tibbs - You wanted a response to the following:
Jim, i expect that you equally follow the other passages of Liviticus and the rest of the bible word for word, right?
I try to follow the word of the Lord as best as possible. (If your thinking of responding then why do I eat pork as someone else mentioned, again there are different type of laws. Think of it as in modern society we have civil and criminal laws - different types.) One must remember the Law is there to condemn, and salavation is found in the New Testament through faith. And yes the Bible is the word of the Lord.
Dont mean to sound "preachy" to you, just answering yoru question.

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Dan Johnson

10:34 am on Friday, March 15, 2013

Jim.
Your modern English mistranslation of the bible may seem clear, but the bible does not condemn homosexuality in the original texts.

Leviticus was about cleanliness codes and pagan ritual sex with temple prostitutes, not committed relationships.

"What the Bible forbids is acts of lust, rape, idolatry, violation of religious purity obligations, or pederasty, but no condemnation of homosexuality in relationships of mutual respect and love. "On the other hand, the Bible pointedly celebrates instances of same-sex emotional intimacy, a fact often overlooked by fearful homophobic readers." James B. Nelson, Professor of Christian Ethics, United Theological Seminary

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Dan Johnson

10:39 am on Friday, March 15, 2013

Leviticus 19:18: You shall not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD.

Leviticus 19:34: But the stranger that dwells with you shall be to you as one born among you, and you shall love him as yourself; for you were strangers in the land of Egypt: I am the LORD your God.

Rob

8:24 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I was a Scout, my father was an Eagle Scout, my sons and nephews were all Scouts. One of my nephews is openly gay and even he disagrees. The Scouts are a Private organization, they have the right to to accept or deny anyone or thing they want. THAT is what defines Private, for them to be receiving such pressure from outside organizations (some also private) is a scary sign of the times. If special intrest and minority groups can use the media to create such pressure, that large organization are forced to change...our individual right to privacy -theirs and ours will soon follow.
What about a the ethnic groups, womens groups, mens groups, etc...

If people want to do a activitee in a group where they aren't allowed...this is America...start your own group. Hysteria is a perfect description of where the media and social media has taken our society today.

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gary schlesinger

10:03 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

in response to dan cox, one could assume that morally straight could mean no sexual activity other than a monogamous relationship. in which case what you describe if done by either gender separate or together would not be morally straight.

do you approve of video of heterosexual sex in health class?

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LaVerne

10:17 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@dan And lets show MARRIED MEN with PROSTITUTES

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IMHO

12:45 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Let's be honest, the BSA is considering changing their position on gays only because their corporate sponsors are abandoning the scouts. Private corporations have the right to fund or not fund organizations at their discretion. The BSA is simply chasing the money, not their moral compass. Whichever way they go on this issue, what parent would want their kid to belong to an organization like that anyway?

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IMHO

1:28 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Dan Cox seems to be obsessed with gay porn. This is the second time he's provided such detailed descriptions. Gay porn does not reflect the lifestyle of most gay people, just like straight porn does not reflect the lifestyle of most straight people.

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Mark

3:11 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Discrimination isn't acceptable, Rob.

D'skidoc

8:31 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

First, slavery was abolished, then women got the right to vote, then jim crow was outlawed. The schools, the military and most of society is now pluralistic, but the boy scouts resist. The next big group to come out will be the "non-believers" i.e. athiests. Eventually society might just be fair and equal for everyone. That's scary to those who have been in power sooooooo long.

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Dan Cox

8:24 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Kill people in a Theater, Kill Children in a School , abort a Baby a year, have sex as a gay, Bi-sexual, Transvestite, or animal lover,who cares, God is a lie, nobody believes in a Judgement Day anymore, anything goes, were evolved from Apes... Right?

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Doug Daluga

9:37 pm on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

No, Dan Cox, we are not "evolved from apes." All apes (including us) are descended from a common ancestor.

HelloKitty

9:08 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Being closed minded and Ignorance is what being taught in Scouts !

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Anne

10:36 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Amen to that! If the BSA is truly a Christian organization they would teach love and tolerance and acceptance, for God made everyone in His image and He loves everyone equally.

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Donna M.

3:04 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

To Anne, I wasn't aware of the BSA being a Christian organization. I know many Jewish scouts...

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Mandy

5:24 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Indeed let's get rid of the myth that BSA is a Christian organization. One can earn a merit badge in Islam, Buddhism and Hinduism, not to mention B'hai.
There are perverts and child molesters in all religions and persuasions. Perhaps the BSA should ban female adult volunteers as well? After all that is consistent with the implications of gays, unless the statement is that all homosexuals are predators.
Time to move up with the 90's, or perhaps the 21st century.

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Dan Cox

8:25 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Yes, open their minds to your perverted and sickening behavior of Homosexuality and the beautiful world of freaks.

Cheer Dad!

9:13 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

NO. This is an organization that was founded a very long time ago with their own oath and rules. Our society continues to imposes and force ones own views and personal choices upon all of us. This is the Boyscouts Of Americas' decision. They had a 2 year review and decided NO last year. Get over it! They said NO and it's their organization. If the gay community is so interested and determined to have such a group, then be pioneers and develop your own group. Enough is enough!

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RonnieTheLimoDriver

10:59 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything. The BSA of America is coming to the conclusion that perhaps they are out of touch with the very values they teach.

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IMHO

12:48 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Like a prostitute, the BSA is following the money instead of their own values.

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Mandy

5:25 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

the founding oath and rules do not mention homosexuality.

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Mark

3:08 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

If it is socially and morally unacceptable today to ban members of an organization because they are black or jewish or whatever, it should also be considered unacceptable to ban people from a group soley on the basis because of who they choose to love.

Excuse me if I find it appalling that people like you do not feel the same. Call it "forcing" my view if you want, but your view is morally reprehensible, and frankly, it's against what this country stands for.

LMJ

9:19 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

This is not even a moral issue to contend with. This is a private organization that is allowed to have their own rules. If people start demanding their idea of how an organization should or shouldn't be run, them we have lost all freedom. If you don't or do like the rules, you can choose to join or not. The Noy Scouts are not a government agency.

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IMHO

12:51 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

No one is demanding anything. Their corporate sponsors have chosen not to fund them any longer (which is their right) so the BSA is voluntarily changing their policy on gays so they can keep the money.

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Mr Tibbs

2:18 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

So will you get them out of my schools then LMJ? You would agree that they don't belong there, right?

LMJ

9:20 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Sorry about my auto spell check. Grrr

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Anderson

9:33 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

So they should have never allowed racial integration then, since they are a private organization and can keep their archaic rules.

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Nightcrawler

9:38 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Come on. That's not what she's saying.

Lefty Ruggiero

9:51 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Private organization. Start your own group if you choose. Hey, I love women, but does that give me the right to petition our govt that I be allowed to shower in the women's locker room. Why is it the minority always rules? I do not get special treatment for being heterosexual!
Would you like to hear some of my qualification for employment? Where I went to school and what I majored in are not important, but let me tell you about the sexual conquests I've had with many women that makes me an extraordinary candidate for this position.
Liberals preach tolerance, but are the most intolerant, militant, violent, hateful people I know.

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Donna M.

3:11 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Gay means attracted to the same sex, it does not assume sexually active. A boy who has made Eagle scout, who has fulfilled all the obligations associated with that high honor should not be kicked out because he is gay...he didn't choose to be gay. He just is. Did you choose to be heterosexual, probably not, you just are. But he is being punished for something he has no control over. It would be like saying anyone who has curly hair can not be a scout, they can hide it, but that is not what scouting is all about.

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Doug Daluga

9:43 pm on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Lefty, You say "I do not get special treatment for being heterosexual!"
Yes, you do. That the whole point!
The rest of your post is just creepy and weird.

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Mark

12:35 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

After Playboy magazine in 1955 published Charles Beaumont's sci-fi short story "A Crooked Man" -- about straight men being persecuted in a world where homosexuality was the norm -- and received angry criticism, Hugh Hefner wrote, "If it is wrong to persecute heterosexuals in a homosexual society then the reverse is wrong, too."[

r neville

10:00 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

It's not a mater of homosexuality, but rather sexuality that of necessity excludes homosexuals.

Unless you think heterosexual men should lead troops of Brownies or Girl Scouts.

I dunno, why not have adolescent boys camping with adolescent girls?

Get real, the boy and girl scouts are sexually segregated for a reason, and it's still a good reason.

/r

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Mr Tibbs

10:20 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Neville,
I am curious about your arguments. So, should we kick out the Moms who work with the boy scouts? They are dens leaders for my boys. Will they be able to control themselves to keep their hands off my son?

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Donna M.

3:13 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

There are den Mothers, as long as they are not gay. But really by your reasoning a gay den mother would be better since she is only attracted to other woman and will not prey on the innocent boys.

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LaVerne

3:42 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Gay Den Mothers are not allowed in BSA nor are there children

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Mr Tibbs

3:59 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

thanks, Lucas. I knew that. I guess it was more of my point that it is not an issue of sexuality to Neville's point. all people have sexuality. The point is that inappropriate sexual activity, heterosexual or otherwise, has no place in BSA. I expect that all members will respect the rights of others and will behave appropriately to help the scouts become outstanding citizens and contributors to society. Sexual orientation does not prohibit this.

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Donna M.

4:15 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Children of gay parents are allowed. The Gay Moms are not allowed to be den mothers. Heck if they denied access to all children of gay parent there would be a lot of kids kicked out. Many gay men had kids before they came out. Then they divorced, by your statement that would mean a boy who lives with a straight Mom who was married to gay man but is not anymore, would not be allowed in the boy scouts.

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Mandy

5:27 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Thank you Mr Tibbs, I couldn't agree more!

Erna S.

10:01 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

This is about the CHILDREN folks. That is why I say NO.
Scouts join at age 10. TEN! Between the ages of 10 to 18 many young people are going through puberty and trying to discover in their own good time about things like sex and what their sexuality is. I feel it is CHILD abuse to confuse young people by introducing them to the concept of the gay lifestyle in a group that is about CHILDREN! It has nothing to do with Scouts hating GAYS at all.

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gary schlesinger

10:08 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

no one is saying anything about introducing children to gay or hetero lifestyles. that is not one of the merit badges. it is about excluding good people, many of whom are parents, because of their sexual orientation. who is to say that all heteros are wonderful role models for children?

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Cakes

10:24 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

So what you are saying is that gay people have a choice and if their scout counselor is gay, that may make a young boy gay. Give me a break. I've got news for all you homophobes - kids these days could care less. They are way more open-minded and accepting then all you paranoid parents. And let's get to the heart of the issue which is people think that if you are a male and gay and working with kids, then you are a pedophile which is not true.

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Nightcrawler

10:37 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@ Cakes - Good point. IMHO, that's why BSA will eventually get rid of their gay ban independent of public pressure. Sexual orientation is no big deal for most kids today. Why would they want to join an organization that makes it one?

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IMHO

12:57 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Erna - do you know anyone who is gay? Is your opinion based on a real experience or is it just your perception about gay people?

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Donna M.

3:21 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Exactly, so a boy can be a cub scout at 6. He will then move up to boy scouts. But wait he isn't attracted to girls when he hits puberty. Oh no ...find out if this now 12 year old is gay...if there is any question now is the time to kick him out of scouting. You don't want to confuse the other boys, who have grown up with him. Really?? Give me a break. He already feels there is something different about himself and not you want to take away BSA from him. Telling him is not worthy or morally fir to be a scout?

Carma will get you one day when you least expect it!!

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Melanie

5:02 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Erna S., Homosexuals are born gay, just like heterosexuals are born attracted to the opposite sex. They don't wake up one day and decide to become gay. This is why we need to educate our children about sexuality at a young age so people who do not understand sexuality don't grow up to be ignorant and hateful toward others. It is not a contagious disease. As human beings, we tend to fear and reject what we don't understand.

E.

10:08 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

To those who think the BSA should be free to discriminate against LGBTQ people because it is a "private" organization: They do not operate outside the public sector. This organization is facilitated by and actively promoted in PUBLIC schools. Public school is supposed to be non-denominational and inclusive, which scouts clearly is not. BSA's ban on gays is based on a Christian religious rationale. When public schools promote or facilitate Scouting activities, they are sending a message that students and parents who are not Christian or heterosexual do not belong, that they are less than full fledged members of the school community. No different than if a public school put up a cross and a Christmas tree. That kind of religious hegemony does not belong in public schools, either directly or through promotion or endorsement of any organization that has a religious affiliation. If BSA wants to define themselves and/or behave as a Christian organization, then they should not claim to be secular and/or non-denominational and they should not be affiliated with public schools in any way. That includes using public schools to promote, recruit, hold meetings or other activities. No other religious organization that I know of is allowed to do that in Evanston.

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LLOMIS

11:03 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

E. - I don't know about Evanston - but in Crystal Lake the Boy Scouts are NOT actively promoted in the public schools. Schools are not allowed to send home Scout notices anymore than the grocery store or liquor store would be allowed to. Boy scouts also do not meet in the schools here.

Dan Arenov

10:13 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Maybe somebody can create the Gay Scouts of America. Who knows what kind of merit badges they will come up with.

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Mr Tibbs

10:25 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Most likely the merit badges would be about first aid, assisting others, tying knots, physical activity.... What were you thinking Dan? That it would all be about sexual function?

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Dan Arenov

10:40 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Mr. Tibbs, don't you see the irony in your statement?

This group of people identifies themselves strictly by their sexual preference. Kids.

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Mr Tibbs

1:25 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

No Dan, I really do not see the irony. Do you identify yourself only as an old myopic white man? Have you nothing else to offer the people around you or society in general? This group does not identify themselves strictly by their sexual preference (maybe some folks do, I can't speak for everyone like some here seem to be able to). They identify themselves based upon their ability to work in society, to interact and participate and contribute to the world. Their ability to help others, to teach new skills, to move business forward, to learn of the world about them. They don't want their identities to be strictly about their sexual orientation; they just don't want to be excluded from the rest of the options strictly because of it. It would seem that the BSA and you are the ones that focus "strictly upon their sexual perference" as the defining factor.

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Mandy

5:28 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan is obviously a homophobe, crawl back into the 60's

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Doug Daluga

9:57 pm on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

You said, "This group of people identifies themselves strictly by their sexual preference. Kids."
Are you saying that homosexuals' sexual preferences are KIDS???
Please tell me you're not THAT ignorant.
You a big Jerry Sandusky fan?

Sue McIntosh

10:26 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Jim, thank you for speaking the truth. Homosexuality is immoral and unnatural. Historically, societies have been destroyed by such acts of immorality. It is unfortunate many people have not studied the past and are unaware of this fact.

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Dan Arenov

10:42 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Sue, there are books about what you allude to here...liberalism is about breaking down society to where there are no distinct 'right' or 'wrong'. At this point, every immoral act is acceptable.

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IMHO

12:58 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Name one society that has been destroyed by homosexuality.

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Sully

1:11 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Historically, societies have been destroyed by such acts of immorality (homosexuality)? True, I do not consider the bible to be a history book, so I guess i am not aware of that "fact". Perhaps you could enlighten me.

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Sully

1:13 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan, where do you get your understanding of liberalism? I think you've either misinterpreted something or you're getting your information from unreliable sources.

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Mr Tibbs

2:27 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

hmmmm... if it is un-natural, why does it happen? Seems to me it would be hard for something that is against natural law to actually continue. And truthfully, I thought that societies were destroyed more through lying, greed, and lack of caring for others more so than for loving another human. Perhaps you can show me these 'facts' that directly point out that homosexuality directly and unproportionately caused the destruction of societies?

wbpprint

10:27 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Perhaps Like Dan Arenov says, maybe someday they will form their own, like the blacks with Black Miss America, Black women in business, and so many other segregated groups. Let the gays go back into the closet, they like any other group, race, or religion have the same rights as the majorities, justdon't flaunt it, and that is exactly what they do.

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Dan Arenov

10:44 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Agreed. Sexual preference should be a private matter. It should not be 'in your face'. But that's what the LGBTQAVC (sorry if i missed a couple letters, it seems to change daily) people like to do.

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Sully

1:16 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I hope you are as old as you sound, wbpprint. That kind of thinking is going the way of the dinosaur. Thankfully, the younger generations are a bit more open-minded. If you are younger, you have been woefully mislead.

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Mr Tibbs

1:50 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

that's right! If we could just go back and really see how well separate but equal works for the benefit of everyone (at least if you are in the majority)... Oh wait... That didn't work so well, did it?
And who is trying 'flaunt it'? it would seem to me that the ones that are making this 'in your face' are the ones that are making it the sole issue for exclusion, the BSA and close-minded folks that for some reason believe that 'these gays' are after your children.

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Doug Daluga

10:05 pm on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

J C - "Mien Kumph"?
Jeez, if you don't know the name of something, don't try to use it in a sentence.

wbpprint - "they like any other group, race, or religion have the same rights as the majorities".
No, they don't. THAT'S THE POINT.

Chris Jenner

10:54 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

If you don't like BSA policies, don't join or support them. And don't force your will on them.

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IMHO

12:59 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

And don't provide corporate funding to them.

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Donna M.

3:31 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

When a boy joins BSA they are just boys, they might discover they are gay, then what? They have worked hard to earn the badges, obeyed the rules and are going to be banned when they discover they are different through no fault of their own or their parents. Sorry boy, although you were fine here for the last 5 years you are no longer welcome. Who are you punishing? The boy, who might even be from a right wing conservative Christian family, who raised him right, now what? Does he all of a sudden turn into a sexual deviant, does he turn liberal? No he is still the same boy, who happens to discover he is gay.

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Mandy

5:33 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

There was no mention of homosexuality in the original policies. This was added after a very unfortunate incident which was the result of not checking peoples backgrounds. In the current culture of background checks and two deep coverage incidents like this are almost impossible. I do not understand what is immoral.

b garrett

11:03 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

The " great society". Everything to be reduced to the lowest common denominator....a mongrel society without morals deviant behavior " normalized". Destruction of schools. Abandonment of religious values. Fatherless children. Unending welfare. ... Random shootings. The liberal politicians have brought us to this....young boys to be "led" by homosexual men .....

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Dan Arenov

11:50 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

you got it, garrett.

When there are no clear boundaries of right and wrong, everything is ok. That's what these people want.

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Mr Tibbs

2:04 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Forty years of darkness! Earthquakes, volcanoes... The dead rising from the grave! Human sacrifice, dogs and cats living together... mass hysteria!
Be careful who you agree with, Dan. garrett wants to take us back to the good ol' days so we can keep clean race delineation (damn those mongrel societies!) as well as not being tricked into gay sex acts.

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Doug Daluga

10:12 pm on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

As opposed to those young boys being "led" by someone as morally forthright as say... Jerry Sandusky? A happily married, HETEROSEXUAL father.

LaVerne

11:05 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

SHOULD Young children who, ARE atheist_ or _agnostic_ BE BANNED ALSO?

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LaVerne

11:12 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I know gary just wanted to see response

michael

11:31 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Sorry my Father (Troop 22) was a Troop Leader was an agnostic, brought up 4 young men thru all levels of scouting and thou we are still not very religious we all are fine adults.
I do not care for and discrimnation and think the Scouts need to be an "open" public using group and take in any and all people to be Scouts or leaders
On God's green earth we are all equal
Let that be our daily motto!

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D'skidoc

2:28 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

The problem with that is if I refuse to believe in or say the word "god", I can't be a member or leader of scouts. On our green earth we are all equal.

Sully

11:32 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Well, at least some of the people commenting on this issue have evolved. I'm afraid the others are still stuck with the caveman Neanderthal mentality. Not surprisingly, these are the same folks who believe they need an arsenal of arms to fight the government when it comes for them and who want to deny women any right to make choices for themselves. And of course gay marriage will cause straight couples to divorce and ruin civilized society. Funny how they say nobody has the right to tell the boys scouts what to do, but these Neanderthals do have the right to say who can marry.

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Dan Arenov

11:54 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Leave it to sully to pick up the pace with the name calling.

He also is in favor of having young boys be distinguished by their sexual preference. And that's what this is all about. NAMBLA member, sully?

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Sully

11:58 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I am? Please explain how I am in favor of what you say.

Thank you.

J

11:39 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

The Meaning of the passage containing, MORALLY CORRECT, directly from the Boy Scout Oath is: http://usscouts.org/advance/boyscout/bsoath.asp
"To be a person of strong character, your relationships with others should be honest and open. You should respect and defend the rights of all people. Be clean in your speech and actions, and remain faithful in your religious beliefs. The values you practice as a Scout will help you shape a life of virtue and self-reliance"
--Basically, I interpret this to be a good citizen, which has nothing to do with sexual orientation. ---

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s.s.

11:45 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Well then there would be no room for all the child molesters they let in.

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LaVerne

11:47 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Most of whom ARE SUPPOSEDLY STRAIGHT CAUSE THEY AREMARRIED

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Dan Arenov

11:57 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

unfortunately, there are child molesters in every segment of the population.. look at Senator Bob Menendez from N.J... he flies down to the Dominican to use the underage girls that have been forced into prostitution. The liberal media says "look the other way"!

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IMHO

1:03 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Equating gay people with child molesters is ignorant.

Jon Hall

11:51 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Separation of church from scouting is essential to the survival of scouting as I experienced it in the '50s. To this day my troop owns its own property and cabin. The idea of going to a scout meeting in a church creeps me out.

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Dan Arenov

12:05 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

tough. then stay out.

the idea that adults are advocating boys to distinguish themselves by their sexual orientation creeps me out.

Jon Hall

11:57 am on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I supported the local troop here once by going to the traditional spaghetti dinner. It was held in a church hall and it creeped me out. I always thought troop spaghetti dinners were held at legion, union, or lodge halls.

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Dan Arenov

12:04 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Did you realize that having a strong faith in God was part of the Boy Scouts credo?

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Sully

12:10 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

So Dan, Gays cannot believe in God? Maybe not the mean spirited God you believe in, yet they can believe in God.

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Dan Arenov

12:19 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

"So Dan, Gays cannot believe in God? Maybe not the mean spirited God you believe in, yet they can believe in God."

are you replying to the right post? Jon was creeped out by having a Boy Scouts meeting in a church vs. having it at a legion hall, etc.

Sully

12:04 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

The Boy Scouts can do what they choose- it is their right. But to say it has to exclude gays because they are immoral and not capable of doing what the scouts stand for is equating them with non-humans. They are as human as anyone else and just as capable of "appropriate" behavior, as well as inappropriate behavior, as that of straight people. I wonder how all you big men out there feel about the "family-values" republicans who keep being exposed for who they really are. I'd say soliciting sex from boys in airport bathroom stalls is not terribly appropriate. You?

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LaVerne

12:24 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@DAN ARENOV CNN subsequently confirmed that the student was above the age of consent in Massachusetts and not sexually active.[14] The incident resurfaced in 2009 as part of a social conservatives' campaign against Jennings' appointment to head the U.S. Department of Education's Office of Safe and Drug-Free Schools.[14]

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LaVerne

12:38 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@ DAN ARENOV Legal Age of Consent "14"

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McCloud

12:53 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

You could probably add the father of the year's behavior as not terribly appropriate either, sex with an intern, telling her to lie before the court, telling Juanita she should probably put some ice on the fat lip he gave her.... What nonsense you spew again from the left.

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Sully

1:18 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Hey Mac, if you're going to try to say something, at least stay on subject.

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McCloud

1:22 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Just dove tailing off your weird last sentence. I guess with your hit n run style, you forget alot.

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Pete

2:29 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@ sully , if you want people to take you serious you should use proper grammer . Im sorry but using words like my bad make you sound like you are from the south where they have no education . Practice what you preach buddy ..... ;,)

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Sully

3:35 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Okay Pete. How about this? - I am sorry, Dan. You are correct that I misread what you wrote, and indeed i did respond incorrectly. Please accept my humble apology. Thank you.

Is that easier for you to understand, Pete?

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Sully

3:37 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

By the way, Pete, that would be "take you seriously", not "take you serious".

Dan Arenov

12:14 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

This is another attempt by the disgusting people on the left to make children consider their sexual orientation at a younger age than what was once thought to be appropriate.

Kevin Jennings, Obama's former 'safe school czar', is driven by homosexual advocacy. He is a fan of Harry Hay, who believes that older men should be able to have sex with young boys.

Kevin Jennings talks about an incident that happened close to twenty years ago when he was a teacher. A 15 year old boy approached him and admitted that he was having anal intercourse with an older man. The teacher, Jennings, should have turned this over to the authorities as this, at the very least, was statutory rape.

Instead, Jennings advised the boy to make sure he used a condom.

That's our 'safe school czar'. That's what these creeps are trying to do..they are trying to bring this to the point where we 're-think' the laws regarding men being able to have anal sex with boys.

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Dan Arenov

12:31 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@Lucas. Jennings said in his own book that the boy was 15.

Whether CNN 'confirmed' that the kid was 15 or 16, twenty years later is not relevant to the FACT that Jennings thought the boy was underage and instead of reporting the incident, he advised the boy to use a condom.

I am not trying to criminally indict Jennings here, i'm bringing up this incident as an example of his character.

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Sully

12:53 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Who wants children to consider their sexual orientation before the are developmentally ready? That would not only be impossible, but irresponsible. The point however, is to not belittle or demean a child when he has figured out his orientation. This society makes kids feel guilty for their feelings. This is beyond a political issue.

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Dan Arenov

1:10 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@Lucas. there is a provision in Mass. state law that lessens the penalty for sexual misconduct when a man has sex with a 14 year old boy, but if the boy is under 16, it is still statutory rape. And for such a screwed up, uber liberal state, at least they have this line in the text of the law:

"Whoever unlawfully has sexual intercourse or unnatural sexual intercourse.."

Do you know what would constitute 'unnatural sexual intercourse"? My guess is that it has to do with a man sticking his penis in the anus of a boy.

Wasn't meant for that. Thus, unnatural.

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Mr Tibbs

2:30 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

so Ken Jennings is why we have to exclude homosexual boys or parents from BSA? Did I miss your argument, Dan?

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Sully

3:40 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Oh McCloud. Trying so hard to keep up.

Frank Lopez

12:19 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Good point Sully....I like the reference to the airport bathroom. That was classic. Yet, none of this is an issue if the Boy Scouts did not cover up sexual abuse for decades. Like the Catholic church, now they want to ban homosexuals from being scout masters as if that would be a solution to the years of abuse by scout masters and priests. At the end of the day, the Boy Scouts and the Church can ban whomever they want. I could care less. I do not trust anyone with my children and unfortunately that is the way we are forced to live as these organizations have proven to be irresponsible while left alone with our kids. You are correct about Republicans. They are notorious for speaking out on family values when the vast majority of uncovered scandals involve them. Then again, the Dems have their fair share of misdeeds. Mel Reyonalds was not a republican and it doesn't make it right that his victim was a girl not a boy. Whenever I hear a male politician or individual preaching against homosexuality, it usually is because they have repressed homosexual desires and are ashamed of them. Can't we all just get along? If one cares so much about gay people being in the scouts, perhaps they are gay themselves and afraid to admit it. This is an issue about sexual predators being in positions of power, gay or straight. The scouts have to deal with that as does the Church.

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Sully

1:00 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I agree, Frank. This is a human issue, not a political one. Unfortunately it has proven to be such an effective wedge issue for politicians, it has become one.

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McCloud

1:07 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Yeah Frank not a political issue, even though I attempted swipes at Republican's just 5 minutes ago. You will have to excuse me, I'm a liberal.

Dan Arenov

12:23 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

"..At the end of the day, the Boy Scouts and the Church can ban whomever they want. I could care less. "

glad you see it that way. btw, didn't you mean to say "i couldn't care less"?

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Frank Lopez

12:45 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Gee, thanks Dan. Nothing like being grammatically corrected on a message board.

Jon Hall

12:29 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan, I would like to see that credo. Show me the document on a BSA Letterhead entitled Boy Scout Credo and I will restore you a small measure of respect.

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Dan Arenov

12:42 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Jon, you can google this for yourself. I don't care enough about gaining the respect of a leftist who supports the indoctrination of young boys into deciding their sexual orientation at an age when they shouldn't care at all.

The Boy Scouts oath or creed says something about performing their duty for God and country. Look it up.. i don't post links. People post links from all kinds of places. decide the truth for yourself.

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Dan Arenov

12:35 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Anderson, as somebody who considers the source of where a story is coming from, i'm not taking this article seriously..whether it is 'pro' or 'con' because of all of the articles on the right hand side of the website. It's obvious that they have an agenda.

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Sully

1:03 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Did you at least read the link, or just assume it's not worthy?

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Dan Arenov

2:35 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

sully, after i read all of the story summaries on the side of the page, i figured that the story in question was written with an agenda.

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Sully

3:41 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Of course it was, Dan. That does not mean it lacks legitimacy though. At least read it and then make the call yourself.

Old H.P.

12:40 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I do understand why the BSA went to the extreme they did, this was in reaction to real pedophile situations within the scouts leadership. The decision was made by an older generation trying to do what they thought was the best practice for scouting and to protect the boys. It seems easy for some people to scream and call the BSA leadership names, when in reality all they were trying to do was protect the boys from harm. Was the choice to ban gays wrong, of course it was and I believe the organization will right the ship and stop the discrimination.

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Jon Hall

12:52 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan, you remind me of Henry Ford who upon being questioned when America fought for its independence answered 1812. I googled Boy Scout credo before I asked you the question. There is no such thing as the Boy Scout credo.

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Old H.P.

12:56 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Boy Scout Oath:
On my honor, I will do my best
To do my duty to God and my country and to obey the Scout Law;
To help other people at all times;
To keep myself physically strong, mentally awake and morally straight.

Boy Scout Motto:
Be Prepared!

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Dan Arenov

12:58 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Jon, you are right. They have an oath, they have a 'promise', etc.. no credo.

However, the gist of the matter was that there was some religious aspect to their purpose. There is. They are to perform their duty for God and country.

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Old H.P.

1:03 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

On God, BSA has recognized atheist and agnostics for over 40 years. They do not need to say God in the pledge.

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Dan Arenov

1:14 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Well, Old H.P.,

pretty soon the boy scouts will be gay and lesbian and transgender and communist, with men and women and circus clowns and huskies all being members. It will stand for nothing, but everyone will get a merit badge! that's where our society is heading.

http://algonquin.patch.com/blog_posts/everybody-gets-a-trophy-until-youre-an-adult

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Old H.P.

1:32 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan I don’t think a boy scout pack meeting will ever look like The rocky horror picture show.

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Old H.P.

1:35 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Also the “God” in the oath is more around the Masonic concept of God, as in a belief in a higher power.

Jon Hall

1:13 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan, you'll eventually learn that you'll achieve more
self-focused spiritual fulfillment in your
life if you learn to be able to better prepare yourself.

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Frank Lopez

1:33 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

LOL@Jon. No one is forcing anyone to belong to the Boy Scouts. If men, women, and circus clowns were in the scouts maybe it would be more interesting. I thought Boy Scouts was lame back when I was a kid.

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Nicole Bushing

1:34 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Jesus said to love the people, but hate the sin. Christians and many other religions have become so tolerant of sinful nature and no longer stand for what is right. We are too afraid of being politically incorrect. Christians are going to be persecuted for standing for the truth. Homosexuality is a sin. Period. Come on people of faith, stand up for the truth, the word of God. We need to pray for all sinners and ask Jesus to let them see the light and the TRUTH...We are to turn away from sin, that includes ALL SIN!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Frank Lopez

1:41 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Christians are afraid of being politically incorrect? I have not seen that. Plenty of Christians are currently living in sin and hiding it. Plenty of atrocities have been covered up..That is weakness. Plenty of Christians failed, and continue to fail, in bringing to justice the 1000s of Priests who have ruined the lives of boys throughout the world. The word of God should be to throw these Priests and Scout leaders in jail forever. In fact, they should be executed by the state of their actions.

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Old H.P.

2:00 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Hi Nicole of what Bible are you speaking? The Torah, those canonized by the 2nd century BCE, Protestant Reformation. Ops I could go on and on and on about the number of different bibles and texts out there, so if you could just tell me the version you are reading from that would help.

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Mr Tibbs

2:39 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

so does this mean that you would favor the BSA dropping their ban? It would seem that way. Love the people, hate the sin... or are you saying that Jesus was incorrect. I'm confused on your stance.
I'm also confused about the persecution of Christians. Can you enlighten me a little more on that area?

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Sully

3:48 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Gee Nicole, do you think Jews and other non-Christians have gotten the memo?

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Anne

4:39 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

So is judging, and lying, and hateful gossip, and all kinds of other things, but Christians just cannot stop focusing on this one issue. We will all stand before the throne of God and He will judge on whether you accepted his Son's death on the cross or not. Done deal!! Everything else is mute! All have sinned and have fallen short. If someone is a homosexual and accepted Christ's Death for his "sin" then God see's Jesus, not the so called "homosexual sinner!"

Dr. K

1:35 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Placing social restrictions on any individual or group based on an inherent, biological, and non-debilitating quality exalts the very same closed-minded bigotry which enslaved African-Americans, denied women the right to vote, and in countless other ways tarnished the notion of "freedom" which we strive to realize in the United States. I find it shocking and appalling that religious organizations, which are supposed to help teach our kids how to be moral human beings, still support discrimination based on sexual preferences. I see no reason why both liberals and conservatives should not agree wholeheartedly on this issue if they are empathetic toward other human beings and conscious of their needs. This is not, and never has been, a matter of political opinion.

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Nicole Bushing

1:41 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Closed minded bigotry....Race and gender is not the same as a man sleeping with another man. I don't know if you have read the Bible, but it states that no man should lay with another man. A sin is a sin. My gossip in God's eyes is the same as someone who commits murder, we need to flee from sin...We are a country where anything goes, look at the outcome...Take God out of schools, we have shootings, std's at all time high, drug addiction all time high, lets just keep making everything acceptable, sin is ok, no God, judgement day will come..You keep your mind set, mine is set on the Lord..

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McCloud

1:42 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I know what you mean, I was declined on my application to become a NOW member. They said I was a man. I might try the League of Women Voters or the NAACP next.

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Mr Tibbs

2:15 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

you are a funny woman, Nicole. Confusing but funny.

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Dr. K

3:01 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@Nicole
The Bible offers two primary points relevant to this conversation:
(1) a man shall not lay with another man
(2) all human beings are created in the image of God, and He loves them equally
Now, how much time would you say is devoted to each of these two points? I am no biblical scholar, but from what I understand (though please correct me if I'm wrong), the latter point is emphasized much more frequently than the former. Since undoubtedly you have read the Bible more thoroughly than I, I need hardly point out how often scripture from the Old Testament contradicts contemporary Christian morality. This contradiction is the natural result of change over time. Back then, as is heavily implied in biblical text, slavery was just fine, women were inherently subordinate to men, and so forth. If this can change, why can't the single line the Bible has devoted to sexuality also be re-interpreted?

Also, it would be hilariously disappointing if the only reason you oppose school shootings, drug use, prostitution/unsafe sex, and other "sins" is because God forbids these things. I do not commit murder because I could not live with the guilt of having caused my victim and his/her family and loved ones so much pain. If God changed his mind and said that murder is all right, would you change your mind with Him?

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Nicole Bushing

2:33 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I am too funny well thanks, I guess you are confused on what is right and wrong. I am very clear on it. You live you way, I live mine. My best friend is gay, I don't agree with what he does, but I love him. I hate the sin, but love the sinners. Pretty clear to me.

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Donna M.

4:36 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@Nicole, Did your best friend choose to be gay. Do you think he should practice abstinence because he is gay? If he did practice abstinence would that make him not gay, since he is not having immoral sex, per you description? Do you think he should be denied membership in a club because he is gay? When he was a teen would you have wanted him thrown out of the scounts because he realized he was gay?

carrie

2:04 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

So it is okay for you to force your beliefs on Christians but Christians should not make their opinions known. Talk about bullying.
Why must people try to force themselves into organizations where they don't fit? Create your own organization and make your own rules. Why try to make all organizations the same.

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McCloud

2:07 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Then liberals would have no way to divide the electorate, they'd have to rely on their "logic", which would put them on the extinct list.

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Sully

3:57 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Therefore gay soldiers are also forcing their way Into the military, correct? How dare they want to help defend their country, a country where so many in the population wish they didn't even exist, and put their own lives at risk for YOUR so called freedom. Selfish bastards those homos are!

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Sully

4:02 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Mac, I think it may be time to remind you again-- your side lost the election. Your side lost seats in the senate, and if not for republican gerrymandering, your side would have lost the house (the dems won the popular vote pretty big, but redistricting by the republicans got them just the results they wanted). The liberals are not the ones in danger of extinction. Even most republicans know that.

Dan Arenov

2:43 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

On a side note, i want to give credit to Obama, David Axelrod, Kevin Jennings and the mainstream media for being so crafty.

Does everybody remember back in September when the administration and the media were being critical of the GOP for focusing on social issues instead of keeping their eye on the ball? (the economy).

They are masters of projection.

In what has been the absolute worst jobs recovery of any recession/depression, the administration has focused on pushing socialized healthcare on us, have spent energy on making sure religious organizations provided contraception, they've been all over gay marriage, gays here and gays there, will be trying to get amnesty for illegals and if they play their cards right, will raise taxes for the purpose of fighting 'global warming'.

Does the media criticize the administration for their lack of focus on the national debt or the lack of jobs? Not at all.

Obama will give his state of the union speech soon and he will tell us all that he is going to be "focused like a laser on jobs". Like he did in 2010, 2011 and 2012. And the fawning audience will clap their hands and stand up... and act as though he had never said these words before. Mark my words.

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Mr Tibbs

3:22 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan, I think you may have the wrong thread. I think the one of discontent from the last election is a few pages over.
Also, Perhaps you need to get used to the lower jobs market as we become more of a globalized capitalistic economy. You need to prove your economic worth beyond others that can do your job similarly in other parts of the world. Though I'm pretty sure the job market for crotchety old white men in fear of everything not like himself may be a little tight right now.

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Jon Hall

3:44 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

You pretty much bankrupted your own credibility with that Boy Scout credo baloney you made up. Scout troops which meet in churches are just a form of bible camp.

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LaVerne

3:51 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Shouldn't Scout troops stop meeting in Churches?

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Sully

4:03 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan? When's the last time you looked at the facts?

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Dan Arenov

4:17 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

b.s., Jon. The point was that performing duty for God and country were part of their philosophy.

Nicole Bushing

2:44 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

the left is so full of opinions and casting hatred towards the right and Christians, it is on the news, in music, movies. Every time a Christian stands up for what they believe in, we are called every name God said the Christians will be persecuted for their beliefs and this is case and point and all the years I have lived and will live will I have to deal with being called names. I don't care, I love the Lord with all my heart and soul and I will stand on his word forever......

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Mr Tibbs

3:16 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Wow, nicole.... if you think you are persecuted, you can thank Allah that you are not a follower of Muhammad living in the U.S. Your persecution is not even close.

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Sully

4:08 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I'm sure the Lord is very proud of your intolerance. Those poor poor persecuted people of the Christian faith. They've had it so hard for so many centuries? With wars and violence such as the Crusades and World War Two, its a wonder there are any Christians left. They've always had the whole world against them It's quite a testimate that they've been able to hold on to such power considering all they've been through.

Pete

2:45 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Its kinda scary reading what i just read . After hearing bout all these people coming out of the closet , i can only imagine that the world health organizaition is most like way way off on the number of people infected with AIDS !!!!!! These posts say way more than any information we get from surveys the gov has on this issue .... You people are sick sick sick !!!!!!

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Mr Tibbs

3:18 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Not sure I'm following how your logic, Pete, or who 'you people' are.

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Sully

4:14 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Don't you see, Mr. Tibbs? Obviously anyone who defends homosexuals as being actual human beings must be gay AND have AIDS. No one with any morals would think human beings who are different from "the norm" deserve the same rights as regular people. Come on, man- get with it! I'm so impressed with Pete's cognitive skills. He must be a very wise and intelligent man, so what he says must be the Truth.

Nicole Bushing

2:52 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

It is scary, I am so amazed that we were once a country where our Founding Fathers prayed, quoted scriptures, we were God Fearing, we had respect for the elders. What happened to the morals and values of the human race. I am sick and sad that we have become like this.

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Old H.P.

2:55 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I do not believe in the creed professed by the Jewish church, by the Roman church, by the Greek church, by the Turkish church, by the Protestant church, nor by any church that I know of...Each of those churches accuse the other of unbelief; and for my own part, I disbelieve them all." Thomas Paine.

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Old H.P.

2:57 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

"Religious bondage shackles and debilitates the mind and unfits it for every noble enterprise." James Madison.

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Sully

4:16 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

You must be a fan of David Barton, Nicole. You might want to try studying a real historian, not one constructed by Glenn Beck.

Troy

2:54 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

It's none of my business what the Boy Scouts do. I'm not a member.

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Anderson

3:06 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I find it interesting how much ignorance is abound in this thread. Discriminating against someone for any reason is wrong. There is no reason to discriminate for reasons that are not harmful to anyone else. Color, sexual orientation, religion (or lack thereof.) all these people can do the task necessary to be in or a part of BSA.

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Dan Arenov

4:26 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

much of the ignorance comes from those on the left. the breakdown of our culture starts and ends with those on the left.

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Sully

4:49 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

No Dan, most of the ignorance comes from the simple- minded population who would rather take what Rush, or Pat Robertson, or Beck say as gospel rather than using their own intellect to understand the reality of the situation- those who accept at face value anything they are told regardless of how unreal it may be. When one chooses to believe everything they are told just because, well, that doesn't say much for the progression of humanity, does it? It's a scary concept to some, but God did give us free will. Otherwise we would simply be puppets with no individuality of our own.

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Sully

4:52 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan, I'm curious. What would the ideal society look like to you? This is not a frivolous question- I would really be interested in knowing, so if you care to answer, please don't do so flippantly. I would like to understand where you are coming from.

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Mark

11:48 am on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Dan's ideal society likely takes place pre-1960, before the Civil Rights Movement. ... And yet he still gives us the Rodney Dangerfield look -- eyes bulging, hand clutching the knot of the necktie, shoulders shrugging -- whenever the Teabaggers are called racists. ... Mississippi whites were decrying the 'breakdown of our culture' all thru the 60s, even when local laws were struck down as unconstitutional.

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Sully

12:50 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

I think that since the tea party has fractured and is having internal strife, it's time to rebrand. I propose the "regressive party" and individuals should be called regressives. They could hang posters of George Wallace and Jesse Helms. They could even celebrate their own special days- the assassinations of MLK and RFK ( I don't know that JFK would have mattered much to them), the day LBJ announced he wouldn't be running again, the day John Lennon was murdered (he WAS a socialist after all), and the day Citizens United passed so that all that money could be surreptitiously donated to their bought off candidates).

Pete

3:31 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@ mr tibbs , ive read your post an you seem like a very smart guy , ill give you that . But you know excalty what I mean. I respect your beliefs please respect mine , I will never see things your way but nice try , an I not gona sit here all day going back an fourth on a subject that i i hold very firm to . I respect what you are into but again that is your thing please dont try an pull me into your world. I happen to like mine .....

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Mr Tibbs

3:50 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Thanks, Pete. Although it is not me that's 'in to' it, if I can use your wording. And because folks defend gay rights or the rights of others does not mean that they are part of that group. I also served as a minority adviser in college, but I'm about as white as they come.
I think that the core point is that no one is trying to make you become gay or join 'my' world. In fact, if BSA decides that they will not allow gay members, I'm OK with that. Very disappointed in them, but it is their own decision. I am discouraged that folks live in fear of being 'converted' to being gay or that these gay individuals will be preying on their children. I would like to try to ease that fear with more realistic issues. Best wishes to you.

RB

3:46 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

"I feel that all people should be able to participate in the Boy Scouts, regardless of their sexual orientation" Mitt Romney, 1994

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NotWastingTime

4:35 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Glad to hear he was right on one issue

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Sully

4:42 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Well that was the 1994 Mitt. Who knows what the 2013 Mitt believes. I guess that would depend on the polls!

T. Niels

3:49 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

While I find these conversations interesting and "varied", I'd like to say I am deeply concerned about how much public pressure is put on private groups and businesses to change what they are doing - from healthcare coverage to this discussion of the Scouts. There is definitely a loss of freedom going on here, where society's viewpoint is more important than individual beliefs. Instead of pressuring groups and businesses to change through laws and lack of financial support, shouldn't we respect their right to their views and move on? That's why America was founded - religious freedom!

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Dan Arenov

4:20 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

absolutely. there has been an attack by the left on every conservative ideology. the media, which is predominantly staffed by liberal groupthink, lends a helping hand.

similar to the Chick Fil A situation last year.

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Sully

4:38 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

The attacks on conservative ideology may possibly be a reaction to the attacks by fundamentalist ideologues who want to tell everyone else what is and what is not moral. I do not dispute Chic-Fil-A's right to be grossly homophobic, but I also have the right to not frequent that establishment anymore (which has been quite hard because I do love it's chicken). I'm not telling you what to do or calling you a narrow-minded cretin because you choose to support it, so why should it be okay for you ( the rhetorical you) to criticize me?

Fundamentalists want it both ways- they are allowed to press their beliefs on to the whole world, yet no one is allowed to question them or offer alternate views. It doesn't work that way. Sorry.

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Lee

6:35 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan, the owners of Chick-fil-A can feel and believe what they want to. What the DON'T have the right to do is to support and donate to HATE groups who commit violence against homosexuals.
This is why the boycott.

Old H.P.

4:04 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I don't know what you all are talking about, the BSA only says scout leaders not be gay not the scouts. Their was a pack that discriminated against a young man but that is not the BSA. In our pack the only things we work on are the basics, life saving, first aid, camping, etc. We do meet at a church but that's it we never talk about any religious beliefs.

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Mr Tibbs

4:13 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

actually, H.P., it is for scouts as well.

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Donna M.

4:48 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Unfortunately the boys are kicked out if they are found to be gay. Here is a story about a boy who reached Eagle Scouts only to be denied because he came out as gay.

http://www.usatoday.com/story/ondeadline/2012/10/05/boy-scouts-of-america-eagle-scout-gay/1614769/

Sully

4:18 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Oh Anderson, you're so naive! Didn't your mama tell you that anybody who is the least bit different than you is to be feared and hated? Spawns of the devil, they are.

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Old H.P.

4:21 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Well I can tell you this if their might be a gay child in our pack that would be none of my business, or anyone else's.

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Dan Arenov

4:28 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

as long as they don't broadcast it or make advances on the straight boys, who cares? but to put these kids in a situation where they feel like they should be making some kind of decision about their sexual preferences when they're tweeners is not good.

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Sully

4:41 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan, how are they forcing kids to make a decision? You alluded to that before. What are they doing that forces kids to make a decision?

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Mr Tibbs

5:18 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Dan, just curious... is it OK if a boy scout makes advances on a straight girl? Just want to know how deep your double standard goes.

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Doug Daluga

10:00 pm on Wednesday, February 13, 2013

"to put these kids in a situation where they feel like they should be making some kind of decision about their sexual preferences when they're tweeners is not good."
Dan Aranov - You must be delusional and/or severely misinformed. People don't "make a decision" about their sexual preferences.
When did you decide to be heterosexual? (if, indeed you truly are)

Pete

5:02 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@ sully. You are not forcing it . But you are planting the seed when you openly talk about it . I mean i dont go around making it a point to tell you im not gay , so why do people wana make it a point to flaunt that they are . I think most people would be happy with a dont ask dont tell . I mean im sure , or i should say i hope you or anybody else would not wana know what me an my wife do behind closed doors . Ive never had a gay friend but ive been around gay people an i know what they do an i know what they are about . An is really dark life they lead with the things they do . We just dont wana know about it thats all .

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Donna M.

5:14 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I don't know any gays who go around announcing that they are gay. People are what they are. If they "act" gay, that's just the way they are. I know straights that act gay but aren't.

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LaVerne

5:15 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I don't walk around with a sign on my back saying if I'm gay or straight. What people do in there bedrooms is there business. I can only assume what they do from hearsay That all the experts that claim to know everything say

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RB

5:31 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Pete, I'm sure that with your attitude, you'll never have any gay friends either. Do certain family members avoid you, or only see you at the holidays? Perhaps, you guys never talk much about family? If so, that's because they see you as what you are. Too bad. They are contributing members of society, have many friends and your choice to exclude them from your life is your loss, not theirs.

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Sully

7:30 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I've never had anyone just come up to me and say they're gay. Friends of mine who are gay have never tried to change my sexual orientation or have flaunted it. My gay cousin is effeminate, but he has never flirted openly with other men in front of me or other members of my family. In fact, he and his partner have been together for over forty years and were just lucky enough to have gotten married recently. They don't cheat on each other, they do not try to seduce other men's partners, and they don't go around hunting for children in order to turn them gay. So Pete, I don't know what you're talking about other than your own scared misperceptions. I have no interest in what you and your wife, or my cousin and his partner do when together. It's none of my business. Do you not think there is ever anything dark going on between the opposite sexes? If not, you're burying your head in the sand. Hey, are you one of those who think there's a difference between rape and "legitimate" rape? That thinks the woman or girl must've been asking for it? Do you feel contempt when high school athletes record their rape of a young woman and paste it on utube, laughing at the girl the whole time? Do you not find that dark and disturbing? Do you simply look away when rapes are reported in the military and it's said that's hat just has to be expected? Nothing wrong with that because the men doing the raping are at least straight?

LaVerne

5:18 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

So tell me all you experts that think gays are nothing but molester. IS Jerry Sandusky gay. How about those teachers having sex with students AND PAENTS ABUSING THERE KIDS

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Mr Tibbs

5:35 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Goldfinger was better... ;-)

Pete

5:41 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@ donna really , their rainbow colored stickers , flags , an symbols are not flaunting it . i would be more willing to listen to what you advocaters have to say , if you would spend some time in these gay bars or these gay partys as they so call them. An if you can honestly an i mean honestly come back an tell me you would still advocate for them , me an others might be more willing to listen an or mabe except . An i say this only because i know after what you see you would be disgusted . I promise you that

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Donna M.

6:31 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Yes Pete if you go to a gay bar or party they will flaunt it as you say. And there is the gay pride parade, But in everyday life at work, school walking down the street , you usually don't see people advertising that they are gay. But you wouldn't believe that you probably only notice the gays who are flaunting it. That's because they are just like anyone else on the street, at work or walking down the street, shopping at the grocery store etc. Don't talk about Boystown that's a whole different place where yes there are gays openly being themselves.

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Pete

6:46 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@ donna do you know what goes on in these gay bars. . Cause the things they do are discusting an you dont see it in straight bars ..... You can spin it all you want ive seen it over the yrs time an time again. .. I love to keep this going an even respond to RB , but I have to make din din for my wife an 2 girls an oh yra my daughters boyfriend who is over enjoying family time. ... I feel sorry for you people an this country .......

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Donna M.

7:27 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

So Pete, what are you doing hanging out at gay bars? I just finished dinner, that I made for my family. See, just because I accept people for who they are, I'm just like any other normal American Woman. My advice to you...if you don't want to be subjected to what gays do in a gay bar...don't go there.

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Sully

7:34 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Heaven forbid your daughters ever get raped, Pete. Then again, it's just straight boys being straight, right? Now, do you have a learning disability in written expression, or did you never make it past third grade?

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LaVerne

7:36 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@pETE your the first supposedly straight guy I've heard admit to hanging out in gay bars. Most I've been in are quite like any straight bar. DRINKS AND PEOPLE TRYING TO MAKE CONNECTIONS.

Northshore

7:05 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Why are the Gays so determined to crash the BSA, why don't they just start the Gay Boy Scouts? Until the crimes were discovered nobody was worried about Jerry Sandusky or your friendly Priest.I can't believe parents of gay boys are willing to subject them to the ridicule that awaits them. I realize you "Prog's" want your boys tutored by a gay scout leader ,but I love my children more than that.

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Sully

7:37 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Gosh Northshore, it's great that you love your children. Hope one of them doesn't turn out to be gay. The ridicule that awaits them only comes from uneducated homophobes such as yourself. You're a dying breed though, so I wouldn't feel too bad for our youth. Save that for yourself and your like minded pals. You are the ones going down.

Northshore

7:39 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Donna M, get a clue Peter goes to gay bars because Peter is gay,get it ?,I will give you credit though for accepting your family for whom they are,must be a strange family environment, whatever.

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LaVerne

7:40 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

A Chicago couple is accused of sexually assaulting two teenagers and forcing them into prostitution, according to prosecutors.

Matthew D. Casey, 23, forced a 15-year-old and 17-year-old to have sex with him while his girlfriend Kimberly Adams, 28, held their hands down, prosecutors said in court Sunday.

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Northshore

7:43 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Sully,it's obvious your very familiar with the phrase "Going Down"

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Sully

8:03 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Ooh Northshore, that's a goodun! You done got me there. Caint get nuthin pass you. I'm still a- laughin.

Pete

7:48 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Sully you lose all credabilty when you get nasty like that . An whats with the lower education remarks , is it because I dont proof read my comments , is it because i dont run to a dictionary an se if its i before , or is it because i have my spell check turne off . I am not looking for anybodys approval in here . Im not looking to impress anybody either. What you get with me is an honest straight up tell it like it is no BS kinda guy . But the truth is people dont like the truth , they like to stay in thier little bubble an be lied to . Why i have know idea. But hurting other people is not gona further your cause ....dont be a hatter ...

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Mr Tibbs

9:48 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Agreed... No reason to resort to name calling or trying to hurt others.

Pete

7:51 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Lucas an sully. Rape an molesters have nothing to do with being gay. Sully you should just go to bed before you lose all creditbility. ... ;)

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Pete

7:55 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Oh really what . Are you saying only gays rape an molest

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Pete

7:57 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

I have no problem being in a gay bar if im in a situation where i have to be northshore . Im very content with who i am..

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Sully

8:00 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Thank you Pete for acknowledging that rapists and gays are not the same. My question to you is is it okay for rapists to rape because they are straight, but it is not okay for gays to love each other because they are the same sex? You are sickened by the thought of what gays do within their own home. Are you not sickened by what rapists do to their victims?

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Pete

8:02 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

For instance my best buddy owns a bar in texas . Sat night is gay night . I just happen to be there last week on vaca when his bartender blew off work , an he had to go work work it needless to say he talked me into goin , i did. An it was just one big sex orgy in there men in the womens bathroom , women in the mens bathroom. Oral sex in the stalls . I was deeply sickened

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LaVerne

8:05 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Not the normal night in a bar. Depends of bar type also. Usually you don't see both sexes in a gay bar

Pete

8:04 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Sully its ok to love another man , i love the handful of best friends that i have ,an yes they are male. But i think people confuse love with sex

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Pete

8:05 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

But with that said , i dont wana have sex with them. Thats the part i dont understand

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Pete

8:12 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Sully I am more sickened by the fact that men in general are very premiscuious yea now thats spelled wrong. An il give you that. But from my experiance every gay man i have met have always had multiple partners at one time. An even the gay guys i talk to will tell you the same thing. I mean im not being a jerk here . Its the truth

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Sully

6:02 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

None of my gay friends or my cousin go from bed to bed to bed. They have one partner they are committed to, just like us "regular" people. And I hate to break it to you, but there plenty of straight men who DO jump from bed to bed to bed (regardless of their relationship status). Have you ever seen what goes on with college athletes and college fraternities?

Roman G. Golash

8:13 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

No. Gays should not be allowed in the boy scouts. Gays should also not be allowed to serve "openly" in the military. Serving "openly" is an invitation to activist in your face intimidation. The military is made to kill and break things, it is not a social engineering laboratory for the extreme left. It is time to stop this nonsense.

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LaVerne

8:52 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Hate to break it to you Roman but Gays have been have been in the military since it started. They are all trained to kill

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Sully

6:03 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

But it is okay for the military academies to force Christianity onto all of its students?

Dan Cox

8:14 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

When you put your male member into the anal canal of another Male you are Homosexual, immoral and dead in the eyes of God!

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Mr Tibbs

10:01 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Actually, Cox, when you judge other and put yourself in the position of God, YOU are immoral and dead in the eyes of God. (Or at least that is what i have heard). Now put your member away, please.

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Sully

6:24 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

Cox is the quintessential "holier than thou".

Pete

8:31 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

@ lucas , i already explained to you that i am comfortable with my sexuality. An if im in a situation an have to be in a gay bar im very comfortable. I know who i am , now mabe if i saw somthing that turned me on I might be scared of being converted . But since im fully an whole heartedly a ladies man , im comfy with it . Now again with that said i dont go lookin for gay bars but from time to time in my life ive been in situations where ive been in them ..

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Sully

6:26 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

Unless you are predisposed to be homosexual, you can not be converted. Just as a gay man cannot be made straight. He can claim to be straight, but he is not really.

Moe @ the Buck

8:39 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Pete, that's a funny story. Only, I'm not buying the part about your friend dragging you to work on alternative lifestyle night. Your friend obviously doesn't mind the activities going on in the bathroom otherwise he would put an end to it. If It's not your cup of tea, why not just leave?
My wife and I ended up at a club in Disney world that happen to be alternative lifestyle industry night. We were at the same club the night before, but this night had a different vibe. Didn't really notice until I saw men shooting jello shots out of shot syringes into each others mouths. After putting 2 and 2 together, Moe, captain obvious realizes the event. We danced all night long and had the best time. We went back the next night and the vibe was gone. Does that make my wife and I gay? If so, then your bar owner friend is too:)

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Procrustes' Foil

6:09 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

Moe, this happened at Disney World? What a hoot. Ol' Walt Disney must be turning over in his grave, since he was a world-class bigot.

Pete

8:43 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

An whats going on with patch that some of these extreme insults are getting through. Even on one of the other boards i was on , did patch take the weekend off. WOW!!!!

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Moe @ the Buck

8:49 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

It's hard for the writers to sift through 230 something comments. They do that after some coffee and bong hits at 5:00 am.

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Pete

8:55 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Moe. Its just not my thing. An he is not gay that i know of. He owns the bar , the gay people took over sat nights. He is ok with it. Does that make him gay. I for one didnt have fun cause it wasnt my cup of tea. Number 2 i really didnt have any fun cause it was a club an the music was just way to loud. I mean does that make me old now cause i dont like loud music. Im glad you guys had fun. Nothing wrong with that ..... But i think we have gotten way off the subject ....

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Pete

9:02 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Oh yea moe. The other reason i didnt leave is because im a beer drinker. An he said if i come with , anything behind the bar was mine , FREE ... An i wasnt bout to turn that down. Plus i just got there the night before an staying at his place with no car. An in a big city. An houston is not like chicago. It way to spread out to cab it then hoof it ...

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LaVerne

9:04 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

nothing wrong with a few cold beers especially freee

Moe @ the Buck

9:11 pm on Sunday, February 10, 2013

Ok Pete. You said the magic word, FREE BEER! Your off the hook.

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Christy

6:57 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

I don't think it is the 'Openly-Homosexuals' we have to worry about. Jerry Sandusky was in a heterosexual marriage and the accused priests made a vow to celibacy. Many adults prey on children whether same sex or not.

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McCloud

7:36 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

There has not been one good reason given here as to why the Boy Scouts should be forced to do anything. Either way they should be the ones who decide their membership, since we still live in albeit declining free society. If they choose to have only blond haired kids, they have that freedom without some meddling liberal in their face.

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Sully

7:58 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

Again with the anger, McCloud. Everything you say is always reduced to the liberals. Always the liberals fault. You offer nothing but your little boy biases and resentment.

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Erna S.

8:03 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

Thank you McCloud. This is not about hating gays. Listen, according to the reasoning of many here THEN the Miss Black America pageant then should be accused of EXCLUSION of other races that are NOT black!
A larger issue here in my opinion is all traditional American institutions are under attack right now. Traditional marriage for example, Boy Scouts another.
Doesn't the NATIONAL ORGANIZATION OF WOMEN exclude and discriminate against MEN? See my point?

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McCloud

8:13 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

You build straw men for every one of your issues. I have no bias against gay people, strangely enough, and whatever the BSA decides on their own is fine with me. Every issue is the same with you liberals, ridicule out of straw men built due to your lack of any strong point available. The intolerant one is you, friend.

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Dan Arenov

8:54 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

good points, McCloud and Erna.. as i mentioned yesterday, there are organizations that i cannot join because i'm a white man.

That's ok with me.

Yet, there are very few organizations where only white men are allowed...because that is BAD. that's DISCRIMINATION.

We have to allow liberals to have double standards. If we didn't, they wouldn't have any standards at all.

Sully

8:49 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

Last response, Mac. I do not include "conservatives, blah, blah, blah" in every single post. I do not say every problem under the sun is due to republicans. That would be lazy. I will point out republican policies if relevant, and may respond to some ridiculous comment about liberals with another comment of my own, but unlike you, I don't feel the necessity to constantly blame one party.

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McCloud

9:27 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

Tell me most wise one, is it supposed to snow in February these days, or did I cause disruption to the atmosphere by starting my car last week?

Erna S.

8:49 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

If a Conservative doesn't want a gun, they don't BUY ONE.
If a Liberal doesn't want to buy a gun, NOBODY ELSE can buy one either.
If a Conservative disagrees with a TV or Radio talk show host, they change channels.
If a Liberal disagrees with a TV or Radio talk show host, they want to take away their freedom of speech altogether.
If Conservatives don't agree on an issue, they agree to disagree.
If Liberals disagree on an issue, they create a STRAW MAN to attack.

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Dan Arenov

8:52 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

you got it, Erna.

Many in this thread have said something to the effect of "..whatever the Boy Scouts want to do is their business".

That's not good enough for liberals.

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Mr Tibbs

10:37 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Interesting that you think all conservatives or liberals can be portrayed as a unified group... (By the way, this is not a strawman).

Dan Arenov

8:50 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

TIbbs: "Dan, just curious... is it OK if a boy scout makes advances on a straight girl? Just want to know how deep your double standard goes."

Mr. Tibbs, in my worldview, yes. the point i was trying to make was that the Boy Scouts organization and their goals have nothing to do with sexuality, but now we are making a big deal about allowing boys who are sexually attracted to other boys, openly, in the organization.

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Mr Tibbs

6:05 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Dan, I think you are making my point for me. I do agree with you, the BSA and their goals have nothing to do with sexuality. But then you go on to say that we are making a big deal about the sexuality of the boys (I'm assuming that you feel the same way in regards to having gay leaders there as well)... Well the only ones that want to make a big deal out of the sexuality seems to be the BSA and some folks here. My point, and I think the point of some others here, is that it should not be a point of exclusion. If we don't exclude because of it, and expect that folks will respect each other regardless of their race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, hair color, finger nail length, etc... then there is no issue nor any problem.
What do you think?

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Donna M.

6:44 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

OMG Dan there are boys who are sexually attracted to girls, openly, in the organization. It shouldn't be a big deal either way.

Dan Arenov

8:56 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

Does anyone believe that it's a good thing for children to be defined by their sexual preference? Is that a healthy thing?

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Sue McIntosh

9:23 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

IMHO and Sully: The Greek and Roman Empires are two examples of moral decline where homosexuatlity(sodomy) is included. I just finished a humanities course at a university I am attending and had to do some research. One of many sources I considered was: http//www.bibleblender.com/2012/biblical-lessons/how-declining-morals-cause-civilization-to-die. If you do not believe that the Bible is a historical source, then consider the science and history that is also included in the article. I felt the article was informative and balanced.

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Elizabeth Weber

9:27 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

That's funny. The decline of the Roman Empire was also defined by consumerism, greed, gluttony, inequality among citizens, and imperialism. Where are all the good Christians speaking against those things, which Jesus said are sins (whereas he was curiously quiet about homosexuality)?

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Mr Tibbs

6:23 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Sue, I read the article. There are a couple of large issues that I have with it. First is that it does not show that homosexuality is the cause of the decline for the 2 societies that it states had significant instances (Greek and Roman). I do note that many of the other societies it lists as falling had no mention of homosexuality.
It also lays the premise that homosexuality leads to pedophilia. But based upon the descriptions it would seem that it was more the loss of humanization and love of the persons and the treatment of them as only sexual objects that is driver of decline.

and further more, it would seem in most all of the cases, the larger driver was the economic success of the society. Similar morrows are seen in business teachings such as the Art of War or capitalistic structure (success --> size --->structure ---> niche competitors ---> destruction---->repeat)

Gary

9:31 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

After conquering homophobia in the Boy Scouts, I look forward to seeing the Gay lobby and their supporters take on homophobia in Islam. OK. Who's first?

<crickets>

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Gary

10:01 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

<more crickets, lots of crickets, even gay crickets have joined the chorus>

What? Nothing? Let me help. Just scan these comments and take any insult thrown at Christianity, and aim it at Islam. That's all it will take for the Gay lobby to achieve intellectual integrity.

You have bravely challenged the Boy Scouts of America, now show you got courage and take on homophobia wherever you find it. I could respect that.

<seriously angry gay crickets>

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McCloud

10:06 am on Monday, February 11, 2013

That's funny, since they light their women on fire, and according to Obama, we should hold the same shame since we don't fund women sports through the NCAA equally.

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Mr Tibbs

6:32 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Gary,
I'll take that on! But first let's address McCloud's myopic comment, shall we? McCloud, have you ever been to an Islamic ceremony or service here on the Northshore? Heck, how about anywhere else for that matter? Actually an enlightening and great experience (you should actually try a couple, many will allow you to attend just like some of the local churches) . My neighbor here in Glenview is a Muslim. He has yet to set any of his women on fire that I have seen. He has worked hard to build a business and has raised 2 great daughters both of whom have advanced degrees and work as a teacher and a journalist. If only most of the U.S. had his work ethic and his hospitality to others, we would be a much stronger country right now! Perhaps you can look a little deeper than your prejudiced response?

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Mr Tibbs

6:44 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Sorry for that interruption, Gary... Now I'll take that on. just like I think we all should take on the responsibility of promoting better understanding and knowledge. For some folks, it will not be easy. To your point, many religions that are based upon the old testament are not directly accepting of homosexuality. (Jewish, Christian, Islamic). I must say, I don't think that I ever have aimed an insult at Christianity here. I think a number of folks have questioned what they see as some double standards within the application of the prejudice some Christians have for homosexuals. I will bravely ask the BSA to change. I will bravely ask most any organization to think about how they exclude or express bias against others. Truthfully, I don't think that it really takes bravery; it just takes compassion.

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Gary

7:04 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Mr. Tibbs,
You just can't get yourself to see homophobia anywhere than in your political enemies here in the US. This isn't about gay rights. This about attacking a culture in the US that you have learned to hate and look down on in the US. Instead of acknowledging Islam's atrocious record on gay rights, you accused me of prejudice. You have proven my point. You're a stand up guy for trying.

Does anyone else want to try?

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Sully

8:51 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Gary, how did this go from allowing gays into the boy scouts to Islam? What has Islam to do with the boy scouts? We are talking about this country- America, and the difference between right and wrong. Why do you bring such a white elephant into the room? Your tangent is nothing more than an escape from the issue at hand. A distraction in other words.

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Mr Tibbs

10:08 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Gary, perhaps if you could get past your 'us and them' mentality, this would be easier for you. First, i'm not sure what your mean by my political enemies here in the U.S. i dont feel that i have political enemies here (OK, i'll give you the KKK and some Arian Nation types who i might consider my political enemies but i dont think you are placing yourself in one of those groups). I can obviously see homophobia in places and groups all around the world. But that isnt what this discussion is about, it is about gay rights even despite your objections. You say it is about "attacking the culture in the US that i have learned to hate and look down upon". Perhaps you could actually enlighten me to what that culture is that i am hating? I have acknowledged that most of the major religions have atrocious records on gay rights... Maybe you didnt actually read my post or you read the response that i stated was directed at McCloud and took it personally?
So the point that i made, which maybe is your point but it is hard to tell now, is that you should fight prejudice where ever you find it. (Oh, and persecuting muslims as a whole is just as bad as saying all Christians should be demonized, but that was really directed at McCloud)

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Gary

9:39 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

My point is that all the attacks coming from the left on issues like gay rights, the war on women, race issues, are all selectively aimed at targets on the right, and characteristically ignore any similar problems that exist in "politically correct" protected groups.

You are being taught to hate the very people who would fix our problems if you gave them a chance. That's the whole purpose of this. You are being played. Wake up.

With regard to the whole bit about gays versus pedophilia, someone already brought up NAMBLA. There is no daylight between NAMBLA and the mainstream gay movement. If the gay movement refuses to make a distinction, then who am I to disagree with them. When I see them sort it out and police their own ranks, then I'll be willing to reconsider the issue.

Gay scout leaders led to molestation in the past, and "common sense" tells us we should not try that again. You don't want to stand in the way of "common sense" do you?

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Sully

10:25 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Gary, you are the one who needs to wake up. You've bought into every Limbaugh-Fox lie about how the left is your enemy. Only those on the right are true Americans. All liberals are secret communists seeking to destroy this country. Get real, Gary. Stop buying all the BS you've been fed.

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Donna M.

10:29 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Gary, people are allowed to have opinions. That what a comment board is for. They are not attacks. And not agreeing with something is different than insulting it.

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Mr Tibbs

4:29 pm on Monday, March 4, 2013

McCloud, I ran across this news story and immediately thought of you and your comments in a few of the stories in the Patch about how Muslim's set their women on fire. seems Christians do that, too. how many have you set on fire as a Christian? I assume the groups should be stereotyped the same, right?
http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/03/02/17163545-man-douses-girlfriend-in-perfume-sets-her-on-fire-police-say?lite

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McCloud

4:41 pm on Monday, March 4, 2013

I would suggest you remove your head from the sand. You are telling me that the treatment of women in Islamic nations is equal and fair? Women are not even allowed to learn how to read. Good grief you are an ignorant one.

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Mr Tibbs

5:37 pm on Monday, March 4, 2013

No,McCloud, not ignorant on this at all. I'm very aware of the atrocities across many countries in the world, even our own. But your prejudice view that aligns all of a group with the behaviors you assign to "Muslims" is based upon ignorance. How many Muslims do you actually know? I know many. none of which have set women or anyone else of fire. My point is that anytime you assign the actions of some to the actions of all, then you are a bigot. If people were to assume everyone is the same based upon the actions of some in that group then you could just as well assume that lots of other Americans set fire to others. Or that all Republicans are racists, or all Democrats exist on public assistance... Bigotry is something we should be looking to eliminate but you seem to propogate it.

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McCloud

5:42 pm on Monday, March 4, 2013

No bigotry that is where you leave logic behind. Countries that condone setting women on fire using religion need to be called out and not equated with NCAA funding here in the US.

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McCloud

5:52 pm on Monday, March 4, 2013

I've been waiting for 12 years for someone in the Muslim world to condemn the murder that happened on Sept 11th. Might be waiting another 12 years?

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Mr Tibbs

7:11 pm on Monday, March 4, 2013

mcCloud, I think you need to look up bigotry. your ignorance of the religion as a whole and the many people who follow Islam here in the U.S. is astounding. to just align them to the murdering stories you see on the news is just a text-book example of bigotry. without even knowing any of the millions muslims that contribute to the success of the U.S., you just group them all into your narrow view as women burning terrorists. It is true just as much as you are a baby murdering gang-banger who lives off of the work of others, as obviously everyone in the Chicago area is because that is what you see on the news.
And the reason you feel you are still waiting Muslims to condemn 9/11 is because you don't want to hear it or even acknowledge that it already happened. In fact most of the leaders of the heavily muslim countries condemned the attack. Hell, there was even about 60,000 people in Iran that held a candle-light vigil of sympathy. Islamic Medical Association, Association of Muslim Social Scientists, American Muslim Council, Islamic Society of North America... the list goes on.
Perhaps if you actually had friends outside of your bigoted circle, you would have a better understanding and not classify everyone in a blanket statement, but I doubt you have much to offer to society or many others.
unfortunately, people like you really do make nauseous. I pray for your enlightenment and to an end of your ignorance.

Bill from Palatine

3:23 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

I am the parent of a boy scout. My son gets plenty of exposure to homosexuality in our culture already. If my son's teacher at the public school were openly gay, he and I would not really feel inclined to do anything about it until it becomes an issue. The Boy Scouts are different.

The Boy Scouts are a private organization of like-minded people. People do not join the scouts to change the scouts, they join the scouts or not as they are. As a parent I like the scouts as they are as does my son. I would hope that gays can be satisfied being gay and scouts can be scouts with other scouts - live and let live.

The gays are not satisfied with live and let live. Gays have sued the Boy Scouts in court and have lost on multiple occasions. After the Boy Scouts won their case in the US Supreme Court, gay activists with the ACLU have continued to sue. The Human Rights Campaign previously rated corporations on their friendliness and acceptance of gay employees. They now rate corporations lower if they choose to fund traditional values organizations such as the Boy Scouts. Large corporate sponsors of the Boy Scouts such as UPS, Merck and Intel are feeling the pressure from the Human Rights Campaign and are considering withdrawing support. The Boy Scouts are not seeking to hurt gays but clearly gays are out to get the Boy Scouts.

In my next post I will explain that the Boy Scouts have, in the past, put scouting principles ahead of financial security.

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Gigi

3:54 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Why is it ok to say no to gays? What if the boy scouts said no to blacks, Latinos, Asians, American Indians.....you get the picture. Would any of that be OK just because they are a private organization?I think everyone would be up in arms if that happened. What does being gay have to do with being a boy scout?

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IMHO

4:02 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Bill draws a line between gays and scouts, but I would suggest those two groups are not mutually exclusive. What about gay scouts and gay scout leaders who want to participate in scouting activities? They're not trying to change anything, they just want to have scouting experiences like everyone else. To use your phrase, why can't they "be scouts with other scouts"? Why must you categorize them as "gays being gay"? Do you also want blacks to "just be satisfied with being black" and not participate in your organizations? Gays are not "out to get the Boy Scouts".

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Sully

8:53 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Are you sure they are all so like-minded? I think you would find plenty who are against discrimination.

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Sully

8:56 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Are Jews allowed into the Boy Scouts? They don't believe that Jesus was the savior, so are they allowed in this organization? I would think that some of you would see being Jewish immoral.

Bill from Palatine

4:00 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

The Boy Scouts purchased what is now the Philmont High Adventure Base in New Mexico and it nearly bankrupted them. They saw an opportunity to buy a great piece of land which would provide scouts with a challenging outdoor adventure that would allow Boy Scouts to apply the scout skills they learn. Philmont is a serious outdoor survival challenge and adventurers must show they are physically fit as a prerequisite. Every adult I have met who was a scout who has gone through Philmont will tell you to a person they went as a boy and came back a man. Philmont helps Boy Scouts to develop initiative, self reliance and leadership. This is what I look for in Boy Scouts for my son.

The Boy Scouts of America have recently suffered from past abuse cases. These cases have been painful because of the horrible suffering of the victims. These cases have also been painful financially for the Boy Scouts. The Boy Scouts as a private organization have every responsibility for scouts and their families to do what is necessary to prevent further abuse.

Frankly, I think more parents will be turned off by scouting than attracted to it if openly gay scout leaders are approved and the organization will suffer. Our culture has plenty of gay advocacy already and as a parent, I seek a traditional values organization for my son where homosexuality will not be an issue.

The Boy Scouts have shown that for more than a century they have developed kids into great leaders and great adults.

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Donna M.

4:22 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

And guess what...some of the men who went through scouting are strong gay men. Physical and mental straight have nothing to do with being straight or gay. A boy who has proved himself to be worthy of becoming an Eagle Scout should not have to hide who he is. Do you think he chose to be gay? No more than you chose to be straight. Most of the abuse I read about is by men who are secretly gay, they are allowed in the scouts because they look "normal" they are married have kids...go to church.

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McCloud

4:27 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Alot of heresay in your stuff. While what you say might be true, the real issue is the BSA should have the liberty to select whomever they wish for their membership, without your meddling. Would you like to live in a country where all the decisions you make are dictated to you by someone else? Isn't that why people came here in the first place?

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Gary

4:37 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Donna - "Most of the abuse I read about is by men who are secretly gay, they are allowed in the scouts because they look "normal" they are married have kids."

Right. Which is exactly why the Scouts banned gay men from being Scout leaders, to stop that abuse. Now you're telling us you want them back in. Tell me, how many young boys are you willing to sacrifice on the altar of political correctness so you can claim to be morally superior to the rest of us?

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Donna M.

4:50 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

I'm saying banning openly gay men will make no difference. The secret ones will still be there.

Aside from the leaders do you think it's ok to kick a teen who has fulfilled all the requirements of Eagle scouts be denied when he comes to the realization that he is gay. I guess it's better for him to keep it hidden suppress it, play straight. In other words lie.

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Gary

4:57 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

I do not have a problem with gay scouts as members. Having gay scout masters has not worked in the past, and I would rather see the Scouts disbanded rather than help set up a situation where more young boys can be molested.

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Sully

9:00 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

So one who is gay cannot perform the same physical activities as one who is straight? and only gays are responsible for abuse? Wow, what have you been reading? Fiction certainly.

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Sully

9:03 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Thats right Gary. Straight males wouldn't think of abusing young men. Maybe you should look up pedophilia. Pedophiles are not gay. They are sick (and straight).

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Steve S.

7:59 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Gary, should the Catholic church be disbanded as well based on your reasoning? many of their clergy are pedophiles.

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Gary

10:06 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Steve,
Of course. If the church doesn't stop the molestation then they should be jailed and sued out of existence. Did you think you were making a point there?

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Steve S.

10:32 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Gary, my point is that if it is known that there is rampant homosexuality and pedophilia within the catholic church, and that when it happens it is typically covered up and dealt with outside of the law, why don't you stand up and disband the church so that we don't put kids in the position of scaring them into believing what you do and then raping them.

Casey T

4:46 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

The truth is that it is a private organization. They should be allowed to pursue their own rules according to their charter. If it is one of the many christian organizations that believes this is a moral issue, then it isn't really up for public debate.

That being said. . . This does remind me of the many organizations that excluded minorities and women at one time for the same reasonings. I disagree with the policy, but at this time, being gay is not considered a minority. I believe they know the fine line they are walking and as a large nationwide organization, have to deal with many areas of the country where being gay is still considered morally wrong. I'm just thankful that the community I raise my family in is, for the most part, more accepting. Perhaps one day the boyscouts of america will be too.

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Donna M.

6:54 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

I agree with most of what you say Casey. However BSA is not a Christian organization. There are many chapters that are non denominational or affiliated with the other religions. My son's met at a school religion was never brought up, nor was sexual preference, skin color etc. That's how it should be. But as you said it is a private organization and are entitled to their rules. I don't have to agree with it. Come to think of it one of the troop leaders from that chapter is now a woman. He was a large manly man before. The epitome of what BSA stands for...how ironic.

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Terri

2:58 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

The term is not minority...it's "protected class". And yes, gays are a "protected class". The only citizens that are not a protected class are white, Anglo-Saxon, Protestant, males under the age of 40. They, BTW, are a minority

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McCloud

3:11 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

The liberal language folks have arrived. Instead of global warming it's climate change, instead of gun control it's gun violence, instead of pro-abortion it's choice, instead of illegal it's undocumented, ..... Their line of crap stinks every new word they try to indoctrinate using Brian Williams as their vehicle.

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Terri

3:27 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

My oh my...you missed the point, Mac...

Erna S.

7:23 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Has anyone here ever been or seen a Gay Pride Parade? Sorry to be politically incorrect here, but I'm gonna say it. The openly perverse manner in which some gays act it also an issue here. IT CONFUSES young children. I am a Scout mother myself and I have been involved with Chicago public schools as a volunteer for years and YES this is an issue. We are talking about YOUNG CHILDREN here. It really blows my mind that so many ADULTS commenting here don't understand this.

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RB

7:39 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

I agree that some of the lascivious behavior could be toned down at the parade. Much of the misbehavior along the sidelines is by young straight people that come to Lake View to party. Have you seen Jersey Shore? Straight People. Have you seen that redneck 20 something show filmed in West Virginia? Straight People. Just like you can't say all straight people act like Jersey Shore kids, you can't say all Gay's act like they are on a parade float. Believe me, they don't!

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LaVerne

7:42 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

@ EMA Mardi Gras in New Orleans SHOULD BE BANNED

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Steve S.

7:56 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

You are the only thing that confuses young children, they are much more pure than yourself and can look at the world without judgemental eyes. The perverse manner in which you speak of is their right to express themselves freely as our country so generously allows, and it it no different or any less confusing than the perverse commentary that you write. No one is saying that boy scout should be a gay group, it just says they shouldn't exclude, even the kids understand this, of course until their parents tell them to.

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Donna M.

10:44 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Mardi Gras" (pron.: /ˈmɑrdiɡrɑː/), "Mardi Gras season", and "Carnival season",[1][2][3][4][5] in English, refer to events of the Carnival celebrations, beginning on or after Epiphany and culminating on the day before Ash Wednesday. Mardi gras is French for Fat Tuesday, referring to the practice of the last night of eating richer, fatty foods before the ritual fasting of the Lenten season, which begins on Ash Wednesday. The day is sometimes referred to as Shrove Tuesday, from the word shrive, meaning "confess

That is the definition from Wikipedia. Have you been to Mardi Gras? Bare breasted woman, excessive drinking, lewd behavior, to name a few things that go on during it. Oh and by the way that is a Christian based event.

Don't take me wrong I am not insulting Christianity, or saying ALL Christians support Mardi Gras celebrations. That would be like saying all Gays are pedophiles and exhibit lewd public behavior.

My point is you can't generalize about any group of people, there are good asnd bad in all walks of society.

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Mark

1:11 am on Friday, February 15, 2013

I’ve never been to a gay pride parade, but my wife and I once strolled down Canal Street in Provincetown, Mass., with our two elementary-school-aged children. And no, they weren’t scarred for life or “confused,” Erna. In fact, they were rather oblivious about it – the male bodybuilders (one in his 40s, the other in his 20s) holding hands, walking down the street wearing nothing but thongs; the skinny guy sashaying in a sarong; another guy wearing a silver-spraypainted, Madonna-style bustier and bicycle shorts; the “I love my two moms” and “I love my two dads” t-shirts worn by storefront mannequins. And hell knows whatever else we saw that day in broad daylight.

In innocence, there is tolerance and acceptance. The kids are closely watching how the adults handle it, Erna. And hysteria breeds mass hysteria.

LaVerne

9:08 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Each Scout should sleep in TENT alone when camping out

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John Brinkmann

10:46 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

and you of course don't need any further education do you sully?---must be nice being so superior---we grovel at the feet of your vast intellect.

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Donna M.

11:37 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Thank you Sully. I just thought I would add a side note about the author. Also the link was flawed so maybe this one will work better

Michael Reagan is the son of President Ronald Reagan. He is the founder and chairman of The Reagan Group and president of The Reagan Legacy Foundation.

Read Latest Breaking News from Newsmax.com http://www.newsmax.com/Reagan/Boy-Scouts-Gay-Pedophilia/2013/02/11/id/489778#ixzz2KhvIHNs8

Sully

10:56 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

I could stand getting educated on something new everyday for the rest of my life. However, I do know the difference between homosexuality and pedophelia. Did I hit a nerve, Mr. Brinkman?

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Gary

12:59 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Can someone explain why this Gay Travel site put so much time into researching the age of consent issue for every State and Country?

http://www.breakaway.cc/GayTravel/GayAgeofConsent.php

Do normal travel sites have "age of consent" web pages for the convenience of their customers? What forces could possibly be in play to make this such a prominent element of gay travel?

There is a very dark side to the gay community, and you better have the courage to look at it if you are going to make decisions about our children's safety.

There are ways to deal with gay scout masters correctly, but doing it blindly while brow beating anyone with legitimate concerns about the consequences is going to end in disaster.

BTW: This is my least favorite political topic. Could we get back to pension reform?

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LaVerne

1:15 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Did you check and see if other travel agencies had that information available? Call Triple A and ask them. Or just call them.

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Gary

1:22 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

So far, two responses and neither one takes up the challenge.

Anyone else want to dive into this cesspool and take the topic head-on?

I won't blame you if you don't.

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LaVerne

1:32 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Didn't know it was a challenge. You asked a question and got a couple answers.

The information they have on there site is readily available at this site.(www.ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm) By the way the information lists females also just in case you missed it.

Lots of sites GAY or Straight add information that can be found elsewhere. You research any other sites?

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LaVerne

2:20 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

@Gary Shouldn't we also be considering School Teachers and Coaches and was to monitor or Ban them. Also parents that abuse there children Have heard fAR MORE Cases of abuse by these people then gays. perhaps the Boy Scouts is rethinking there decision for lack of info.

Sully

1:10 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

No, can't explain why. Can you explain why you are so curious about the subject of gays? How did you even know such a website existed? If its your least favorite political topic, why are you paying so much attention?

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Gary

1:18 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

... and THAT is why this is my least favorite topic...

It's like discussing abortion. The details of the discussion are revolting.

I am paying attention because very few people are willing to stand between our children and the social engineers who are recklessly implementing their politically correct agenda without considering the consequences.

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Dan Arenov

3:20 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

liberals love NAMBLA.

they want to break it all down to where there's no right and no wrong. then, everything, including men having anal intercourse with young boys, will be acceptable.

that is one of the goals of liberalism, which we know is a disease.

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Steve S.

3:24 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Dan, are you speaking of the Catholic church? Sounds right on.

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Mark

1:18 am on Friday, February 15, 2013

Yeah, I'll start wearing ashes on my forehead again and quit eating meat on Fridays when Pope Benny tells us all he knows about clergy sex crimes & cover-ups.

Sully

2:02 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

That's because it's not real, Gary. Get a grip. You fall for all the right wing scare tactics. You see things that aren't there because you're afraid. Stop being so afraid of white elephants. They're really pretty harmless.

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Sully

4:43 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Dan perhaps you should get a grip too. You are overflowing with koolaid-aid. I can't believe you guys are so easily manipulated into believing anything no matter how ridiculous. You must be a big Ann Coulter fan, Dan. She's about as ridiculous as one can be (right up there with Glenn Beck). Guess what? We (liberals) do know the difference between right and wrong. We don't want to take away all your arms, we don't want to force you or your children to become homosexuals, we don't want abortion to be used as an individual's birth control, we don't want to take away free speech, and we are not trying to turn this country into a communist state. We don't have horns either or the 666 mark. Obama is not the anti-Christ, he's not Muslim, he was not born in Kenya, and he is not going to outlaw Christianity. We DO however, believe in research- proven science, such as global warming or climate change, just as a majority of scientists around the world believe (your heroes can deny all they want- they are lying to you though), we do not believe Adam and Eve roamed the world with dinosaurs, or that the earth is 6000 years old. We do not believe that abortion causes cancer. We do not believe that the bible is 100 percent literal, and we sure as h-ll don't think that if Jesus were alive today, he'd be as uncaring toward other people as you all are. I know there's more ridiculous BS is out there, but I can't remember it all. There's so much it's hard to keep track.

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Donna M.

5:03 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Bravo Sully. Only problem is your wasting your time and energy here. You might as well be trying to reason with a parrot.

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Procrustes' Foil

5:43 am on Friday, February 15, 2013

Right on, Sully! Science has always been the enemy of the ignorant. That's why they stay ignorant. Donna M. is correct. Civility, reason and facts will never encourage the same from the ignorant. But thanks for your brave attempts to educate them.

Sully

5:12 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

I know. I don't know why I continue to try. THEY won't change, but maybe other more rational readers will at least consider different possibilities.

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Gary

6:00 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Gays are not all evil people, but the male gay culture has two very big problems that directly apply to this issue:

1. Reckless (almost unbelievable) levels of promiscuity.
2. A strong predilection for under age sexual partners.

If you take those two facts together and then mix in young boys, you better not look the other way or you will be culpable for the results.... and demonizing ME won't grant you one speck of absolution for your carelessness!

You CAN NOT simply go with today's political fad on this one. You have to fight for your children. No one else is.

There. I've had my say. I've done my bit and I can't wait to wash the filth of this discussion out of my mind. Outside the confines of this little text box no one listens to me and I have no power at all so if you're thinking I'm out there protecting the children somewhere and that you are relieved of that responsibility, you are wrong. The "rational people" with power are going to have to protect our children in the face of withering political correctness.

What is the chance that will happen?

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LaVerne

7:29 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

@ Gary I bet you think Fred Phelps is rational and agree with him.

Sully

6:07 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Where did you get this information, Gary? I'd really like to know because I don't think either of those statements are correct. Please point me to the research that supports what you say. Thanks!

On another note, is this not a group trying to force IT'S agenda-

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/13/american-family-association-gay-couples-buried-arlington-national-cemetery_n_2678325.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular

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RB

8:57 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

The Marines, the Army, the Navy, the Air Force, and the Coast Guard have all ended discrimination based on sexual orientation. Discrimination affects the entire Boy Scouts organization.
The BSA prides itself on leadership. Yet its discriminatory policies seem to teach young participants that it's perfectly fine to exclude people based on sexual orientation. And the message these policies send to gay youth who already struggle to feel accepted is just wrong.

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Frank Lopez

10:07 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

This thread has been going on for over a week. I think everyone needs to move forward from this. Life is too short to spend a week debating and arguing over the Boy Scouts. If you don't agree with the scouts, don't let your kids join. If you do agree with the scouts, have at it..

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Mark

1:20 am on Friday, February 15, 2013

Frank, this isn't a scout troop orientation meeting. We're talking about human beings' civil rights.

But you can turn off the mute button now and go back to watching Honey Boo-Boo if you must ...

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Sully

6:02 am on Friday, February 15, 2013

This is a little broader than that, Frank. It's not just about the boy scouts, but about civil rights, and discrimination. Your last name is Lopez (I assume). With that kind of name, just think of how much discrimination you could face. Lopez- that's not Amurican; can I see your papers please?

Mark

1:43 am on Friday, February 15, 2013

The rich irony in all of this, of course, is that the founder of the Boy Scouts, Robert Stephenson Smyth Baden-Powell, was a closeted gay man.

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Procrustes' Foil

5:50 am on Friday, February 15, 2013

Mark, how true.That is the irony here. Unfortunately, by the time this debate stream ends, those scouts will be senior citizens. The kids may adjust their way of thinking, but it is the adults who rarely do.

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Sully

6:03 am on Friday, February 15, 2013

Really? i didn't know that. How incredibly ironic.

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Richard Wollard

6:15 am on Friday, February 15, 2013

Bottom line... God's word (the God to whom the Boy Scouts are supposedly doing their duty) is unchanging. Who's gay, who's not gay, and how kids and/or seniors feel about being gay is irrelevant. The Bible is clear, has always been clear, and will always be clear - sin, including homosexuality, separates us from God. If the Boy Scouts want to drop doing their duty to God, or redefine who God is, then they can open the flood gates on what they consider to be acceptable behavior.

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gary schlesinger

12:35 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

but how do we know what god said? the book to which you refer was written over centuries by a group of people who spent years wandering in the desert. who knows if they wrote it correctly? who knows if it is truly the word of god or the word of the then governing body of the wanderers?

if you believe people, all of them, are created in god's image, then did he or she not create the gay and lesbian people? why would god condemn what god created?

how to explain evil? if god is all powerful, there would be no evil. if there is evil then god is not all powerful.

none of it holds together logically. then of course there is the argument about why is this piece of the bible so important but the other pieces about not mixing fabrics or milk and meat are not so important. who choses which ones are sacrosanct and which may be discarded.

maybe the fabric one is more important than the lying with man one? god has not told us.

if you choose to believe in any religion and its tenants, that is your business. but do not force all others to do so.

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Mark

12:40 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Richard, as a Catholic I'm having a difficult listening to a lecture about our "duty" to God regarding homosexuality.

If you need to use the Bible as an excuse to be a bigot, just be clear about it.

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Richard Wollard

1:47 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Mark... what does being catholic have to do with anything? Do Roman Catholics believe in the Bible; as a "catholic", do you believe in the Bible?
Gary... the evidence for the reliability of the Bible is overwhelming! If you are interested, let me know and I can point you to some great resources!

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Sully

6:17 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Mark, don't you love the way Richard would not capitalize "Catholic". You do know that right behind their first place hatred of Jews ("their" meaning fundamentalists- usually the biggest hypocrites on this earth) is their second place hatred for Catholics, don't you?

The evidence for the reliability of the bible is overwhelming? Really? I'd like to see an example of this overwhelming evidence and also that the bible is so clear. Maybe God created YOU with no free will of your own, but for most of us, we've figured out the bible is not 100 percent literal. Thank God for that.

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Mark

6:44 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Nearly 5 years later, Sully, that "Clinging to their guns & religion" line never looked more spot-on.

Procrustes' Foil

6:33 am on Friday, February 15, 2013

This irony and hypocrisy holds true for John Maynard Keynes, too. Neocons were all Keynesians until they learned that Keynes was gay, openly gay. ( Keynes: A Short Introduction - Oxford University Press). Now, they're Keynes bashers.

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McCloud

1:54 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

It's pretty easy to be a Keynes basher, history has proven the failed theory over and over again. Just look at the most recent example, the Obama stimuli. Not sure what a neocon is, but based on your nonsense it sounds like you listen to some fringe extreme nut jobs who cite Koch brothers and such frequently. Here is something you and they probably missed yesterday.

http://news.investors.com/ibd-editorials-viewpoint/021213-644194-obama-growth-record-is-worst-in-60-years.htm?p=full

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Mark

2:55 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Nice link McCloud. Jeffrey Anderson has been writing that same op-ed since Sept. 2011, and it still didn't get Rmoney elected.

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McCloud

3:33 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Yeah, kind of makes you wonder how Obama won. For worsts, Obama leads in most catagories, yet he got reeelected.

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Sully

6:22 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Kind of makes you wonder why in every thread that Mac turns the conversation to Obama - even the blurb about the asteroid. Mac, you sure are obsessed with this hatred for your president. Do you actually do anything during the day that does not involve hating Obama?

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Just Sayin

7:10 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

McClown...Speaking of the asteroid thread...did you notice how the Patch yanked your 'blue' comment? LOL. I am tellin' ya man...keep that mind (?) ABOVE your belt. You reveal too much of your twisted self with comments like that one. We don't need to be privy to all your demented thought patterns now do we. Thank you Patch censors!

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Sully

7:20 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Well darn it, J.S., I must've missed that one. Bummer.

Mark

2:11 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Richard, while I do believe the Catholic teaching that “Every human person, created in the image of God, has the natural right to be recognized as a free and responsible being; All owe to each other this duty of respect,” I am ashamed of the church and I believe it has been wrong in its criminal activity.

Am I also not allowed to believe that parts of the Bible are incorrect? Am I wrong to say it’s cowardly to use the Bible as a tool, as you do, to be an unflinching bigot?

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Dan Johnson

3:39 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Richard. Your modern English mistranslation of the bible may be clear, but the original texts have been mistranslated and misinterpreted.

"What the Bible forbids is acts of lust, rape, idolatry, violation of religious purity obligations, or pederasty, but no condemnation of homosexuality in relationships of mutual respect and love. "On the other hand, the Bible pointedly celebrates instances of same-sex emotional intimacy, a fact often overlooked by fearful homophobic readers." (James B. Nelson, Professor of Christian Ethics, United Theological Seminary)

"The original Greek word often quoted as sexual immorality, Paul used was "porneia" which means "a harlot for hire." "Alleged references to homosexuality in I Corinthians and I Timothy are the inventions of anti-gay translators. They are not in the original Greek texts." (Rev. Dr. Mel White)

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Mark

6:40 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Yep. McCloud, Dickie Morris, and ol' Rover were scratchin' their pointy heads on election night wondering what the heck happened. Completely stunned.

McCloud, whatever happened to the good old days, when on a day like today we'd all be laughing our fannies off and clinking our Budweiser bottles together about that meteor slamming into commie, pinko Russia?

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Sully

6:49 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

It seems that those who work at or watch Fox et al. were the only ones who thought Romney would win (in a landslide too). That's what happens when you make up poll results just because you don't like what they're all showing. It's easy to see how McCloud could be confused.

Sully

6:42 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Really?

"According to The Advocate, the Boy Scouts will not employ “atheists, agnostics, known or avowed homosexuals, or others,” as stated in an employment application obtained by the Human Rights Campaign, which is the largest LGBT rights organization in the country. The application, however, goes on to say that being convicted of a crime “is not an automatic bar to employment.”"

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jim

9:32 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Wikipedia:
The Boy Scouts of America (BSA), one of the largest private youth organizations in the United States, has policies which prohibit atheists, agnostics and "open or avowed" homosexual people from membership in its Scouting program as directly violating its fundamental principles and tenets. BSA has denied or revoked membership status or leadership positions for violation of these foundational principles.

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Sully

9:41 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

So if you break into someone else's home or embezzle millions of dollars from the firm where you work, it's still okay to be a scout leader. If you cheat on your wife or rape someone of the opposite sex, you can still be a scout leader. However, you better not be gay and you better believe in God. Got it.

Just Sayin

7:19 pm on Friday, February 15, 2013

Dick Wollard...This is THE bottom line: There is no god.

( Only fools such as...well...yourself have fallen for that fairy tale).

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Rob

8:02 am on Saturday, February 23, 2013

It's a private organization. "Boy" Scouts....is society going to force them to include girls too? Because they choose who they want to include, does NOT mean they are persecuting others...my gosh! You people are freakin crazy...have you read your comments to each other? It no wonder we as a country are floundering in every segment of society. Such a sad commentary on a once proud and fluishing people.
We are repeating history...take a look at the once dominate Ancient Romans and compare there societies downfall with that of America society today. 20 years from now, we will be Argentina.

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Dan Johnson

9:13 am on Saturday, February 23, 2013

No one is saying they can't discriminate. The message is they should not, and that doing so causes harm in a variety of ways.

If you are trying to say acceptance and equal treatment under the law as required by the constitution is what caused the downfall of Rome, you need to try again. Same sex marriage, allowed before the rise of Christianity, was outlawed in Rome in around 300 AD. Using your logic, you would have to assume it was the persecution of gay citizens in Rome that led to the downfall.

Stevie Janowski

7:33 pm on Monday, March 4, 2013

A certain part of me says how do you call a kid gay at a young age, but another part of me is like theres a reason you dont have gay brothers in a fraternity.

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Dan Johnson

9:08 am on Tuesday, March 5, 2013

You don't call a kid gay until he comes to that conclusion for himself.

Many know at an early age while others don't come to grips with their sexual orientation till much later. Even once a person has come to that conclusion, prejudice keeps many in the closet for years and even decades. Severe prejudice in many areas still results in needless death for those who have been taught it would be better to be dead than gay.

And not all fraternities exclude gay brothers.

Larry

9:17 am on Wednesday, March 13, 2013

MORALLY STRAIGHT
George Washington said that morality cannot be lasting without religion. A morally straight Scout knows how to love and serve God in the way He wants him to. We are created by God and we owe certain duties to this Heavenly Father of all of us.
You learn to perform these spiritual duties in your home and in your church or synagogue. Some Scouts learn these most important duties in the schools they attend. On Mt. Sinai God gave Moses the Ten Commandments. He laid down certain definite Laws for all. Not to steal, not to lie, not to abuse your body are some of these Laws. Keeping these Commandments is an important step toward being morally straight.

A loving Scout son always asks his Heavenly Father's pardon before he goes to bed at night for any offense he may have committed in thought, word or deed during the day. This is a Scout's way of saying: "I am sorry dear God, and with your help I will not offend you again." Your own spiritual minister, priest or rabbi will teach you how to know God better."
- page 25 Boy Scout Handbook 1958 ed.

At the very least we can be sure that indicates the BSA discriminates against atheists which may be argued is as reprehensible as discriminating by race. It also evidently indicates a Biblical moral standard in American Scouting (BSA.)

If BSA may be based on such a narrowly defined religious moral code, why then may it not consider homosexuality a violation of that code?

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Dan Johnson

9:40 am on Wednesday, March 13, 2013

They can exclude anyone they want because they are a private club.

They can exclude black kids and leaders too, as they did in the old days. The questions include, should they?, and should they receive public funds if they do?

Many believe the answer to both questions is no. Those who are discriminated against should not be expected to help fund their own discrimination through public funds.

Many churches who support the scouts also support full inclusion of gay scouts and leaders. While religious belief is a choice, sexual orientation is not.

We also know that discrimination also results in stigmatization, demonization, and dehumanization. That prejudice results in harm in a wide variety of ways. Is harming others needlessly a scout value? It that moral?

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Dan Johnson

9:52 am on Wednesday, March 13, 2013

The vast body of evidence since the early days of social science shows prejudice causes harm in a wide variety of ways. Laws, social policies, social support systems that deny equality contribute to a social climate promotes prejudice. The resulting dehumanization and demonization is used to justify their behavior by those who bully, beat, torture, and kill. It also results in self destruction, both fast and slow.

The same prejudice used to dehumanize us here is also used around the world to justify imprisonment, torture, and death. The only way to end prejudice is to expose it and the harm it causes, anywhere and everywhere it surfaces.

Prejudice is a deadly disease that can only be cured through education and understanding. Let's remember Jesus told us the most important thing we need to know is; we should love God and love all others the same. All other religions as well as non religious ethical belief systems agree with that one idea. Now is the time to put it into practice.

Larry

12:31 am on Friday, March 15, 2013

Look here Dan:

http://secular.org/news/government-funding-boys-scouts-discriminatory-policies-unacceptable

That is the total of government support for BSA. The taxpaper may breathe a sigh of relief that virtually none of it involves expenditures and the BSA may breathe a sigh of relief that it could get by without that moral support from goverment should it ever be withdrawn.

If you meant support from businesses as public, then everyone may boycott the businesses of their choice but doing so might mean missing out on some fine Ben and Jerry's or Chick-Fil-A. Do you buy things made in China? Do you think it is worse to buy things made by a company that donates to the Boy Scouts?

Concerning past segregation in the BSA, I believe you will find it moved away from it on a par with the rest of society. It would be as easy to sully the reputation of such sainted progressives as Wilson and FDR (just to name two convenient examples,)that way. We don't know what FDR would think of "Gay Rights" were he alive today. We do know for certain however that he did not so much as utter a single public word on homosexuality. Nor was he a "pioneer" in ending segregation of any kind - between black and white or any other kind. (His wife did make a few gestures.)

Who takes pride in carrying on FDR's legacy today? Should we castigate them for his embarassing record on segregation? If not, then why hold them to one standard and the BSA to another?

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Dan Johnson

10:54 am on Friday, March 15, 2013

"The 2005 Jamboree cost taxpayers approximately $8 million." according to your resource.

Additionally; "The Boy Scouts enjoy special privileges from the Department of Defense, including funding, facilities, organization, advertising, and incentives in hiring for their Eagle Scouts," said Jason Torpy

That does not include funding they get from state and local governments, including (sometimes) free use of public buildings others must pay for.

Again, this amounts to those who are being stigmatized by discrimination, funding their own discrimination and stigmatization.

Larry

2:52 am on Friday, March 15, 2013

Dan,

You referred to homosexual marriage in the Roman Empire prior to Christianity.
Is there any verification of such a thing? Evidence of homosexual relations in the ancient world isn't too hard to find but under the auspices of the sanctity of marriage is another matter. I might add that moralists decrying the decadence of Rome and attributing its troubles to it, far predate the Christian era.

Sparta is the most outstanding and well documented example -ancient or otherwise. It is however, not a very convenient example as the homosexuality was normalized in the form of pedophilia. Boys were initiated into the warrior
culture being trained by an experienced warrior man who also used the boy as a sexual plaything. This was never sanctioned as marriage. Marriage entailed entirely different things - bonding together two families and procreation. The man fulfilled those obligations (how begrudgingly who knows?)separately.
Separately and sparingly. His greatest devotion was in the field as a soldier and in training up boys as soldiers in the manner just described.

In Sparta Scoutmasters were evidently expected if not required to molest the boys. That all ended well before nasty Christianity reared its ugly head in Greece.

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Dan Johnson

11:07 am on Friday, March 15, 2013

With a quick search of "ancient gay marriage" (or similar), you will find same sex couples were recognized around the world at various times and places, including in Christian ceremonies, even after they were banned by Rome around 300 AD. "A same-sex union was known in Ancient Greece and Rome,[2] in some regions of China, and at certain times in ancient European history.[3] These same-sex unions continued until Christianity became the official religion of the Roman Empire."...
"Numerous examples of same sex unions among peers, not age-structured, are found in Ancient Greek writings." (and there is much more)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_same-sex_unions

Larry

10:53 pm on Saturday, March 16, 2013

I stand corrected. Up to a point:
http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2012/10/washingtons-porkiest-projects-waste-book-2012/

Government funds lots of things taxpayers have reason to resent.

http://www.daytondailynews.com/news/news/local/dayton-sclc-probe-leads-to-new-rules-for-federal-f/nNCPg/

That's an unfortunate case. The Southern Christian Leadership Conference receives federal funding sometimes, as does the Salvation Army, to provide aid through the organization. Not to advance the Christian faith but to help the needy. That doesn't turn government religious. The YMCA shows that it more tends to secularize the organization:

http://www.revelife.com/730126841/the-ymca-drops-the-christian-from-the-name/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boy_Scouts_of_America_membership_controversies#Governmental_sponsorship_of_Scouting_units

"The BSA agreed in 2005 to transfer all charters it had issued to governmental entities to private entities in response to a request from the ACLU."

That might not be such good news for those wanting gay (or atheist) membership as it suggests the BSA is not quite ready yet to be cowed into compliance.

It also provides a cautionary tale about becoming dependent on government.

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Larry

1:11 am on Sunday, March 17, 2013

"While it is a relatively new practice that same-sex couples are being granted the same form of legal marital recognition..."

Legal, marital, recognized. That is all I meant; not various "unions" no matter how formal, ritualistic or ceremonial. Nor even common, although no evidence indicates it has ever been that.

"While the relationship was clearly approved by the wider community, and was compared to heterosexual marriage, it did not involve a religious ceremony binding the couple."

Non-binding. From "a" story. A novel story? A fiction?

"Amongst the Romans, there were instances of same-sex marriages being performed, as evidenced by emperors Nero[17][18][19] and (possibly - though it is doubted by many historians) Elagabalus,[20] who both supposedly married men.."

Instances? Supposedly? I understand this used to add to the infamy of Nero. In defense of same-sex marriage Nero would be better left aside.

"..and by its outlaw in 342 AD in the Theodosian Code,[21] but the exact intent of the law and its relation to social practice is unclear, as only a few examples of same-sex marriage in that culture exist."

We could come up with more than a few example from the past year. More than are in that entire article. Possibly something like what we're getting now did exist in some culture that did not leave a record of it. Even if one could be found we would also need to find a good reason for wanting to emulate it.

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